This is Karl Stigell’s cousin,Pam Gelder— Though I did not know Jack, I must say that it really seems like he and I would have gotten along famously! We both have four children that are the loves of our lives and we both were similar in that having a good time and some great laughs are paramount in our life on this earth. My family adores Katie and I am sorry I never knew Jack. His absence will be a huge loss in the lives of those who knew and loved him but I’m sure his spirit will still be with you, especially at that kick a** party that you’ve planned. My sincerest condolences.