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I met John as a teenager in the 90’s and he had the biggest smile and softest words of encouragement. His daughter and I were track and field athletes and as an athlete he always played “Coach”. I just recently learned of his passing from my dad and I can’t wait to see him in the Paradise with his lovely wife. Thank you for being a great friend!
I am so so sorry to hear about the passing of my beloved friend, John Butcher, I just found out. I called his number and found out it had been disconnected, I knew something was wrong so I went to Facebook and found out the devastating news.  I will never hear that bubbly voice that always made me smile .  May you all find peace in your memories he left behind because he loved his children and grandchildren.  May you all be blessed beyond measures as you go through this difficult time, Earline Nelson ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

John was a kind man. We worked at New York Life together and started about the same time. Few people make it 30 years in anything, fewer still in our industry. 

Always a smile from John! He will be missed.

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To the family of John Butcher, I am deeply sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful person who never met a stranger who didn’t become a friend. His warm spirit will sorely be missed. Praying God’s blessings for the family. May he rest in peace. 

Kelli Frey Hallingquest 

My condolences to John's family. I first met John and Deborah when I was married to Deborah's cousin Jesse Pitts...John was a very kind person...he was also a spiritual brother to me...he will be truly missed...I pray for the family to have strength during this difficult time...

Dorothy LLittlejohn and Shalon  Pitts 

John is a very dear friend of mine and my husband. We both will see you in paradise.  

Michael and Marlo

I will always remember Mr. Butcher's bright and upbeat character. He was my coach for the young boy's basketball team in the Salvation Army league. I knew absolutely nothing about the game, but Mr. Butcher was patient in his coaching and believed in the maximum potential of any individual. Mr. Butcher will sorely be missed and my condolences go out to the his family.
Annie Bass
2024, Kansas City, KS, USA

Thirty five years ago when I moved from Alabama to Atchison, I met Butcher’s parents and siblings b4 knowing Butcher. I enjoyed visiting his family, because they were like home away from home. A few years after moving from Atchison and Leavenworth County, I migrated to Johnson County, where I met Butcher through mutual friends. When he found out I was an Aflac Agent, he tried to recruit me to New York Life. Initially I was not interested in pursuing New York Life, but when the Pandemic hit, I re evaluated my career and decided to do both. So from 2020 to now, I have enjoyed helping people with both, Aflac and New York Life.

Butcher was like a Big Brother Mentor to me.

I am looking forward to welcoming him and his family members that preceded him in death, back in the resurrection to life on this earth when Revelation 21:4 will be fulfilled.

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Mr Butcher never met a stranger.  We became acquainted thru First Friday, his brainstorm to unite KC BLK people is a business social setting, the 1st gathering held at the Doubletree, OP.

His kind spirit, a gift to talk will so be missed.

Please accept my most sincere condolences in the passing of John Butcher.  He was a true gentleman and loved his family so much.  I know you and Debra are dancing together in heaven now.  R.I.P John Butcher.  Your fraternity brother, John Coleman, Jr. 

To the family of John Butcher.

My family and I send our condolences.  We all knew John.  He loved life and talked often of the the things he loved the most which included Deborah and his children and grandchildren.  

I thought he was such a good man and an ardent, outspoken KU basketball fan. He will be missed.

Fran Foster and family.

I met John Butcher in 2012 - -5yrs into my Career w/ NYLife; I was 34yrs old and he was 62.  After he found out I went to KU and was a college athlete we became fast friends! We would talk about the various Jayhawk sports programs mainly the men's basketball team and he would share with me his "coaching perspective" and what "he would've done" during a rare loss. …Of course he'd end with "Bill Self never asked him" :)  When it came to work, it was clearly evident that he he loved his career and he loved his clients, there was no doubt of this; a mentor for sure. He was a kind, caring, lively soul. I appreciated that he cared about what was going on in your life and wanted you to know that you were not alone if you were having a rough time. He made sure to remind me that he had navigated many a rough storm. And when your storm passed and you were on top of the world he championed your efforts and sung your praises. I often joked with him that if I needed a pick me up; I'd call him!  After I heard of his passing I replayed a voicemail I had from him in Aug. it made me laugh, it made me cry. Here's to you my friend... one last Rock Chalk - and on the occasional KU basketball loss; I'll still ask for your opinion. 
We were surprised to find out that John had passed. What a shock! We wish the family our heartfelt condolences and pray for calm and peace.  May God be with you at this time. 
John was such a great person.  For the past 10 years I was his personal technician. I was the only One who worked on his pc. We talked almost every day. I'll miss him terribly  I can't believe I just spoke  to him about 2 weeks ago. 😢 
I'm kinda in shock. John called me out of the blue about a week ago to harass me about a silly online post. Hadn't spoke in at least 5 years. Felt like no time had passed. Snarky comments, bragging about the kids, memories of Deborah, and of course, insurance advice. No hint of anything negative. So special. 

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