Jess's obituary
Jess Wilson Akin, III
May 6, 1944 - March 19, 2023
It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of Mr. Jess "Skeeter" Akin, III on March 19, 2023.
Born on May 6, 1944 in Houston, Texas, Jess was part comedian, part salesman, all heart. He was a gentle man with wit and sensitivity, a well intentioned man who lived life on his own terms. He always brought joy and laughter to those around him with a heart so immense, so fragile, and so beautiful.
Professionally, Jess dedicated his career to sales, where his sharp mind and amiable nature helped him excel in his field. He was not only respected by his colleagues and clients, but also admired for his honesty and integrity. He was pushing to achieve the mark of 50 years in business, and almost got there.
Outside of work, Jess had a deep affection for communicating with the world around him. He would strike up a conversation with anyone and he never met a stranger. In recent years he had become a quite competitive gamer, conquering the world of Siege on a regular basis. In the not so distant past, he was a soldier, a fisherman, an outdoorsman, horse back rider, and a golfer. He was, most importantly (to us kids) a loving father. The diversity of interests and experiences allowed him to explore his competitive spirit and enjoy the thrill of a challenge. Those who shared these passions with him will fondly remember the camaraderie and joy that he brought to every occasion.
Jess, was often referred to as "Skeeter" by his namesake, "#1 Son" to his mother Mavis, "Bubba" to his sister Monta Jane, and "Dad/Pops/Daddy-o" to his children. He set an example of love and dedication. He was a man of many facets. Behind his wit and humor, there was a caring and protective individual who always put the needs of his family first. He was a devoted father to his children. With a fiery temper and a passion for his beliefs, he led those around him.
He is survived by his sister Monta Jane Akin, his children Michelle, Jess "Jay", Suzanne, and Todd, his grandchildren Taylor, Brody, and Eliza as well as a network of extended family spread across the nation.
My daughter(3-year-old) asked me last night as we were sleeping, "Are you going on a trip?" Yes, baby. "Is PaPa sick?" Not anymore honey. "Are you going to help him?" Yes sugar, Daddy's going to help him go on a trip to the stars. "Oh I see him! (Pointing to the stars on her ceiling.) He's on that one going zoom to the moon!" Yep, that's the one. (Pause.) "How do we talk to him?" We just talk, he can hear us. His voice is in the wind, the grass is his fuzzy beard, and the trees are made of hugs. (Just go fishing, you'll find him.)
As we gather to remember the life of Jess Wilson Akin III, let us honor his memory by embracing the qualities that defined him: his intelligence, his wit, his caring nature, and his unwavering love for his family and friends. May his passion for life and laughter live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Please wish him peace, joy, and acceptance in heaven and the great beyond that awaits all of us. We will be there in the blink of an eye, it's up to us to enjoy the before, as to let them enjoy the after.
We love you Dad, there's never enough time.
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