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In 1996 Allen & Jean Stuhl introduced Jen to LTA and talked her into volunteering backstage. Just in time for her to join my lighting crew for “Cat On A Hot Tin Roof”. She enjoyed working lights, and a few shows later, for “The Sorcerer”, she became the Master Electrician. That was a trial by fire, as the official lighting designer dropped out during tech week, leaving Jen solely responsible for lighting the show. She rose to that challenge, just as she has done with every other one during the quarter century we have been friends. She moved on to become a lighting designer herself, and a very good one, both at LTA and other community theaters. Stage Manager, costumes, props, onstage in a musical. With all that as background, it is not surprising that when she turned her hand to producing, she became a producer that every show wanted for her calmness and supportive attitude.

With “Bugs” at Dominion Stage she increased the range of her expertise again, entering a new phase as a director. In productions such as “’Night, Mother” she demonstrated an ability to bring out, in the audience, an empathy for the characters they saw on stage, making for deeper connections with and understandings of each play. Our schedules conflicted with our working together, but I went to see all of the shows she directed, because I knew they would be of the highest quality.

We also went to see shows together, sometimes in a group, sometimes just the two of us. She once told me of a goal to see an average of one show a week: theater, concert, or movie. I have a lot of friends in the local Celtic Music community and, her schedule permitting, she was always up to experience a new group or listen to another a second or third time. She was frequently going up to NYC to stay with family and see Broadway and off-Broadway shows. She became an adjudicator for WATCH with the task of reviewing another nine to ten shows each year. For the last several summers, outside of Covid, she and friends had been going to the Contemporary American Theater Festival to see five or six mostly-new shows over a long weekend.

And on top of all that she was on the Board at LTA and later Dominion Stage, and earlier on the board and the longest running president of Port City Playhouse.

We shared books, so many books. And spoiled each other’s cats. There were gaming sessions at least once a month. Board games - where she would frequently bring new ones she’d heard of and purchased. Or a long-running Fantasy Role Playing campaign.

Jen was so outgoing, so friendly, so available to be helpful when needed. Many of my friends, I have because Jen introduced us. You could not ask for a wiser, more considerate, more inclusive person.

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Sending my condolences to all of Jen's family and friends! She will be sorely missed in our theatre community! RIP Jen <3
To help us all feel more empo…
2018, Alexandria, VA, USA
To help us all feel more empowered after the presidential election in 2016, Jen began to host postcard writing parties several times a year.  She provided all of the addresses needed, we also wrote postcards to voters in various districts in the US, encouraging them to get out and vote for progressive candidates.  She supplied the postcards and stamps, we brought our own writing materials, I used a bunch of glitter pens.  We all felt a great sense of accomplishment when we posted many postcards in the mailbox after a session and this was thanks to Jen.   
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Jen entrusted me with lighting Dirty Blonde when it had been 45 years since I had designed lights for the stage. Despite the fact that she was an accomplished lighting designer, she never once said "do it this way". After I started directing again, I have always tried to treat lighting designers with the same grace and respect that Jen extended to me. Most recently I had to quickly choose a show to direct to fill an open slot and my first thought was "what would Jen do?" I am grateful that I was able to share this with her earlier this month.
Although countless people have been touched by Jen's warm and giving ways, none of us will will miss her the same way her family will. She was obviously a woman who loved her family deeply and I'm sure they felt the same. Please know that you will continue to be in my prayers as you begin to move forward. You have my very deepest sympathy.
Dracula opening night after-p…
2018, Little Theatre of Alexandria, Wolfe Street, Alexandria, VA, USA
Dracula opening night after-party.
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I worked with Jennifer at Customs and Border Protection for 10 years. She was always willing to do whatever it took to keep the Data Management group functioning. She was a great writer and organizer and always had a great attitude. I will miss her laugh and good cheer and our many in-depth discussions about the theater, plays and music, and her family.
No time on Earth is long enough to share with those we love or to prepare our hearts for goodbye. We will miss you, Jen.

Gloria Dugan
We are both shocked and saddened by the loss of Jen. I already miss being able to tease her, just to hear her laughter.

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