Memories of Jeffrey "Jeff Stacy" Calamusa

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Jeffrey "Jeff Stacy" Calamusa

Weehawken, NJ, USA

July 10, 1959 - August 15, 2020

Jul 10, 1959 - Aug 15, 2020

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Ron Wright-Scherr

Sorry I didn’t get to know Jeff sooner. He was a great person.

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Erika Amato

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Erika Amato

He really was. He really was. He really was.

David DiCenso

I attended Webb and had the utmost respect for Jeff. I was a Freshman when he was a senior and he left an everlasting impression on me (other than the bruises and bluebirds). He was one of a kind and I was saddened when I heard of his passing. He was an inspiration and a good example of character and kindness. He is the type that can haze you and your reaction was, "what a nice guy." My best to his family and I am so sorry for your loss.

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Erika Amato

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Erika Amato

Thank you so much for sharing... He really was one of a kind, and I miss him every day. (Jeff told me many... Read more Thank you so much for sharing... He really was one of a kind, and I miss him every day. (Jeff told me many stories about his infamous... Read more Thank you so much for sharing... He really was one ... Read more

Ron Wright-Scherr

❤️❤️❤️. I had a squirrel that used to come to my bedroom window. Once when my brother started hitting ... Read more ❤️❤️❤️. I had a squirrel that used to come to my bedroom window. Once when my brother started hitting me, Curly (the squirrel)... Read more ❤️❤️❤️. I had a squirrel that used to come to my ... Read more

Martina Gruber

My deepest condolences. I found out about Jeff’s death coincidentally. I can’t believe he is gone. And that his sister Debbie also died. How is Alfi and his mom Linda? Is there any way that I could get their phone numbers? They know me very well. My number is 818.4454244 and my email is martinasojv@gmail.com . Please pass it on to them. I am still in shock. Much strength, Martina.

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Erika Amato

They're doing very well, considering the circumstances. We all are. Personally, I lost my father, then Jeff... Read more They're doing very well, considering the circumstances. We all are. Personally, I lost my father, then Jeff just 8 months later,... Read more They're doing very well, considering the circumstances.... Read more

Erika Amato

1992, West Hollywood, CA, USA

Today's a difficult day, as it marks the two year anniversary of Jeff's passing. Rather than focus on the sadness, I wanted to post this candid photo (a Polaroid!) from my 23rd birthday party (December of '92). We'd been dating about 6 weeks at that point. I think you can tell that we REALLY liked each other. 😉

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Erika Amato

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Ruth Lever

Happy heavenly birthday Jeff ❤️🌺❤️

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Ruth Lever

1989, Alta Loma, Rancho Cucamonga, CA, USA

Jeff was one of a kind, and kind and compassionate are words that describe him well. I remember the Christmas when my son wanted a quad so that he could “ride with the big boys” in Glamis. Since I was a struggling single parent with three kids I had no credit. So who stepped up for my son, you guessed it, Jeff did!! This is just one of the stories I have about the generous spirit of Jeff ❤️

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Erika Amato

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Erika Amato

That's a wonderful story, Ruth. Thank you. That's a wonderful story, Ruth. Thank you. That's a wonderful story, Ruth. Thank you.

Ruth Lever

My absolute pleasure ❤️ My absolute pleasure ❤️ My absolute pleasure ❤️

Judy Amato

Blessed birthday in heaven, my dear funny lovable son-in-law. You are missed

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Erika Amato

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Erika Amato

He loved you, Mom. He loved you, Mom. He loved you, Mom.

Erika Amato

And then my wonderful Mom passed, 6 weeks later. And then my wonderful Mom passed, 6 weeks later. And then my wonderful Mom passed, 6 weeks later.

Ernesto Rosas

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Erika Amato

Ernesto Rosas

I remember he was so nice and he gave me a ride to my job

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Erika Amato

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Erika Amato

He was a great guy. 💕💔💕 He was a great guy. 💕💔💕 He was a great guy. 💕💔💕

Erika Amato

California, USA

Jeff Collage #1

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Laura Cotten

Sending lots of love Erika. ❤️ We are all thinking about you and sending you strength.

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Erika Amato

Janet Walter

Dear heart,

Your great loss is a testimony of your tremendous love for your remarkable husband /best friend/soul mate .

The two of you were so well suited for
each other—both so creative and talented—and so completely devoted to each other!

It has been a great joy, and privilege , to
have been on the periphery of your love and life together.

You have contributed so much to the Fine Arts community, your families and friends, in fact , to every life you ever
touched!

Jeff will never be forgotten, and you both will live on in our memories forever.

With so much love and admiration,
Janet Walter

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Erika Amato

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Erika Amato

This is so beautiful, Janet. I was so incredibly grief-stricken and in shock at the time that I didn't know... Read more This is so beautiful, Janet. I was so incredibly grief-stricken and in shock at the time that I didn't know how to respond to ... Read more This is so beautiful, Janet. I was so incredibly grief-stricken... Read more