Ginger - I am so sad and sorry for your huge loss.  I know how deeply you loved Jeff.  May God's presence hug you both day and night as you travel this road that is called the new normal. 

I will always love you my dear sweet friend - even though time has passed my respect and love for you has not changed.

I will always remember the great care you gave my precious daddy and will always be greatful to you.

You are in my prayers and always in my heart 

Jo Ann Bennett Smith

This has been so hard for me to write. The Jeff I knew was a gentle soul with a kind, loving heart. He would do anything for you and think nothing of it. I'm so thankful for the custom pieces he made for us. He was a wonderful craftsman and he showed pride in his work. We will keep them in our family forever.

I always loved talking to Jeff because his calming presence made you feel at peace. Whether you were asking for advice, or giving it, he'd never hesitate to listen and was thoughtful with his responses.

A lot of people know Jeff to be serious, but man, did he have some quips. They were always so unexpected, and perfectly timed!

I'm gonna miss you, your smile, and your laughs, Jeff, but I know you are resting comfortably. I know we will meet again, and I love you! Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your family!

Mrs. Ginger, I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine the tremendous void you have been left with; my heart just breaks for you. Sending love and many prayers of peace, comfort, and understanding for you and your family during this difficult time, as well as days that lie ahead. ❤️

A glass of milk 😂
The first time Blake introduced me to his family I was 19 and we were meeting at a fancy restaurant. Before we arrived, Jeff asked everyone if he should order me a glass of milk while they waited for us since I was still a little teenager. Now, I'm not a milk person, but having been a part of the family for so long now I've adopted the practice of having a glass of milk with dessert every once in awhile, and I think about that time in our lives with every single glass. Happy to share my dessert time with thoughts of meeting new family, and the sweet & funny soul that was Jeff.

I was so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. He was such a sweet and kind, thoughtful person. He was a blessing to everyone he knew and met. He will truly be missed. Keeping family and friends in our thoughts and prayers. 

I remember Jeff as a kind and generous man, soft spoken, and quick to find good qualities in others rather than faults. I enjoyed his companionship and regret not spending more time with him. He has gone on to be with his Mom, my Aunt Mary Stilwell Wise, and Uncle James Elam Wise, his Dad and other family members who have departed this life. No doubt, he is in good company!  Jeff, you are missed. Thanks for being a member of my family. We have been enriched by your presence!

With love and sincerity,

Cousins Ray and Susan

Jeff was a tender and sweet soul. He sat my sisters and I when we were 4-6… he broke my arm 🤣. Not really though, we were playing airplane and I landed wrong. He was so scared he’d be in trouble. Mom simply told him “kids fall, they get hurt. It was an accident!” He was so sweet about the whole thing. We would sit on Aunt Mary’s front porch and Jeff would shoot holes in the clouds with his BB gun. Beth, Tonya, and I were in awe. He was an incredibly awesome person. As I got older, his love and affection was ever apparent. A piece of my heart will always be his. 

Our family got together for a cookout at the park on July 2. Jeff grilled his famous hamburgers and hotdogs. "Engagement burgers" as my husband and I had come to call them over the years. He spent time watching his grandchildren play with water balloons after we ate. As we were leaving, I thanked him for everything. He said he was too sweaty for a hug so we air hugged and exchanged I love yous.

When Ginger talked about Jeff, you could her deep love for him in her face. Ginger, my sincere condolences to you during this difficult time.  I am praying for you and your family.  Love, Vickie

I will never forget the night I sold Jeff his truck. It was cold outside and he stopped to get me a cup of coffee. He said, "I didn't know if you liked cream or sugar, so I got a bunch of each" as he handed me a crazy amount of both. It was one of the kindest gestures on a cold day. Jeff and Ginger have always had a special place in my heart and continue to. 💕  Continued prayers for all.

Jeff was one of the most gentle souls I've ever met. He had the ability to be calm and contemplative, then he would make you laugh with something he said out of the blue.