I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Ibukun, my heart goes out to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time.

Ibukun will always be remembered for the memories we spent together her presence touched so many lives, and her legacy will live on through the countless memories shared with loved ones.

May her soul rest in perfect peace 😭😭

Writing this is an unbearable experience for me. Just over a week ago, we were sitting here, planning a destination 50th birthday for you. In the end, we concluded that whatever you decide, we will be ready. Not knowing what was to come.

My B.L like I always called you, your beautiful voice when we call will forever ring in my ears "hello Yemi" always make me laugh and with that we usually get to be on calls for hours on end. 

Since we weren't twins and you being surrounded by Kennys, you and I were the twins that never happened. 

Every night since that unbelievable night, I have been in bed staring at where you used to lie down beside me whenever you visited. From there we would chat until the morning. 

Like everyone is saying, you were always present, always considerate, always giving your money and time. You loved God, life, your children and your friends. You were so easy to love because you were a genuine soul. To know you my dear is to love you deeply. 

I will always remember the great times that we shared together and your advice on navigating life in general. 

I love you so much so that loosing you this young breaks my heart💔💔💔😥😥😥😥

A lot of things will never be the same again without you. 

Good night my Boss Lady. 

……Le Buks, my dear IBK, I touched down in Lagos last week for a business engagement, while you were away in the UK, but as usual, your driver with your car was already waiting to pick me up at the airport, Saheed your driver was with me for the days I spent in Lagos. We had several video calls, exchanged pleasantry and hope to see you once again I come back to Lagos. Our phone conversation from the airport till I reached my home in Abuja is still resonating in my subconsciousness.  It’s difficult and painful for me to accept the fact that you’re gone.

Le-Buks……you’re a beautiful soul, inside and out, a wonderful friend to all Ilegrams ’93 Set;  supporting our cause with your gentle and caring nature. Your spirit of given and generosity is amazing. To you, life is about touching souls no matter how little.

 One of your beliefs in life was the importance of being authentic with people, saying what needs to be said because it’s good for the relationship and for the soul. Unfinished business causes pain and having peace is essential for a healthy and joyful life. I always admired you on how you never judged or forced your opinions on anyone, but offered valuable and truthful advice, that....... I will surely miss.

IBK was loving and real. She was a wonderful mother to her two children and laid a strong foundation for them.

“Goodbyes are not forever; goodbyes are not the end; they simply mean I’ll miss you until we meet again.”

Rest on IBK, Sleep well Le-Buks

                                                                               ................Your so called Alhaji SK Wahab

As we gather in memory of Ibukun (Le Buks de tai) —a beautiful soul who touched the lives of many and left an indelible mark on the hearts of those of us fortunate enough to know her. Ibukun lived a life of purpose, generosity, and compassion, always radiating kindness to everyone she encountered. Her gentle spirit and unwavering support for others made her a pillar of strength for friends, family, and her community.

Ibukun had a remarkable ability to listen and empathize, offering her time and energy to those in need without hesitation. Her presence was a source of comfort and her wisdom, often shared in the quietest of moments, guided those around her through life’s challenges. She didn’t seek recognition for her deeds, but her impact was undeniable—lifting others up with her words, her actions, and her unconditional love.

She lived with grace and humility, always focusing on the good in people and striving to make the world a better place. Her spirit was one of resilience, courage, and compassion, and these qualities will remain alive in the hearts of those she leaves behind. Though she is no longer with us in body, her legacy of kindness, strength, and unwavering love will endure.

Ibukun’s life, though ended too soon, was a testament to the power of quiet, steadfast goodness. She showed us that true greatness lies in how we touch the lives of others, and for that, we are forever grateful. May her memory be a blessing, and may she rest in perfect peace.

We spoke on Monday 15th October at about 2pm with a promise to sort out my request as soon as you can…………. 

Ibukun is a good friend

I remember last year that I had delay on one of my document for like 11 months. Along the line, her and Kenny discussed about it and within period of one week, her influence on the issue made it easier for the problem to be solved.

This is not the right time for her to die 😭 why do good people die early? I believe she's on the right hand of God...... May her soul rest in perfect peace 🕊️ ORE 🙏

IBK! During your low times, you were always  resolute in taking up people's matter. Strong and beautiful Woman you were! Till we meet to part no more..

Adieu 

IBK*

….still in rude shock.

I am broken and in deep pain writing this tribute naturally I am not disposed to celebrating people when they are gone but I take solace in the fact that i celebrated you while you were here. I was looking forward to February 16, 2025 when I will congratulate you on your 50th with many throw back pictures. It’s so sad that it’s now never going to be.

As a Yoruba ma, I have come to believe that names are not just coincidence. They are divinely orchestrated and designed to chart the course of our lives.

At birth you were name IBUKUN and EYITAYO. As IBUKUN, you were the heart, blessing and darling of us all and you had the heart for everyone. As Eyitayo, you were an emphatic and declaration of joy to all humanity, particularly those very close to you. You lived your life and treaded so closely to God’s line, you were so cute, a beautiful gentle lady to the core, sweetly-spirited, humble and caring. Thank God I said these to you the last time we met at Prince Ebano Supermarket in Ikeja GRA early this year.

As hundreds of people gather here to bid you FARE-WELL, we all have one testimony, that IBUKUN you had GOD given warm large heart, sincere and caring.

Your husband, beautiful children, younger brother and sister, in-laws and relatives, friends and classmates here gathered are unequivocally say that you were the daughter everyone was proud of and all friends delighted in.

To say I will miss you will be awfully inadequate, however, I take solace in the word of God in 1 Thess. 4: 13-18

“But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.

14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.

15 For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep.

16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:

17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.

18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words.”

The memories of the joy and excitement of several photographs we shared and our meeting during your set’s 30th anniversary in Ilesa Grammar School last December will be fresh and á delightful one.

Rest on till we meet at the banquet of the Saints, IBUKUN.

- Ayò Awé

Oct. 18, 2024.

Words fail me! Still in utter shock. Never been this shock about a person's demise. I spoke with you on Tuesday but never knew will be for the last. Your gentle soft spoken nature is second to none. Your humility is inspiring. This is just not right but we can't question the Almighty God.

May the good Lord keep your children and the family you left behind. May he give your loved ones the fortitude to bear this senseless loss. May your irreplaceable gentle soul rest in Peace dearest. You are loved.