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To live more. Be less afraid and occasionally say F It and do it.
In response to "What did you learn from Hiedei?"
Her smile will live on in so many hearts. It’s truly heart wrenching that someone as Amazing as her had to leave so soon. 
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Hiedei had a love for living every day to the fullest, never missing a chance to share in fun with friends and family.  She pushed me to come out of my comfort zone and experience things I never would have without her. She didn't have a favorote of anything, she loved everything and made the most of every day, even the odd ones. 

Hiedei was the most amazing woman I have ever known. We decided long ago God made us best friend's so I would have a sister/ adventure wife❤️ 

I'm lost without our morning calls and late night sip sip passes while eating way to much food. We always ate way to much chips and candy, but we would always just said F#it and keep snaking lol.

I miss our adventures and after work calls. You are the best sister and I am so thankful to have been by your side for all these years ❤️ 

I did everything I could to keep you, but God needed you home. I love you so much and I know you will be watching over all of us until we can hug again., love you sis 😘 💓 

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She'd do the little thing's make time for you. Included you in her activities. She'd nurse you to health off the clock.
In response to "What act of kindness did you witness from Hiedei?"
She did what she set out to do. She'd say F it and do it. Also she believed in full fledged life living. 90% go 10% rest.
In response to "What made Hiedei different from most people you know?"
Her and I in Disneyland. We went to Disneyland on one of her army breaks lol at least 10 rides broke down AFTER we got off them. We laughed about being a jenix.
In response to "What was the most fun you ever had with Hiedei?"
Sunflowers and daisy's. Tents, hiking trails, Halloween, everything
In response to "What always reminds you of Hiedei?"
Camp, spend time with friends, raise her daughter, be a kick ass nurse, live life FULLY every day.
In response to "What did Hiedei love to do?"
We went Thursday June 30th to see new Minions. She came right after work to white city theater. She sat at end, me middle, Saoirse, Rebecca boys and Rebecca. I am so very happy we did that.
In response to "When was the last time you spent time with Hiedei?"
When she came home form hospital 11-17-1983. But I talked to tummy a lot.
In response to "How did you first meet Hiedei?"
I meet Hiedei while working at the VA. I trained her and she was an exceptional person. Her smile always Beautiful, her Heart ❤️ made of pure Gold, her Love for her Daughter So Beautiful and Strong. She touched so many lives. RIP my dewar friend, you will never be forgotten 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

I met my friend Hiedei when we both worked in Oncology. We quickly became friends after she overheard me playing 2000’s alternative music while I was preparing chemo. We talked every day when we worked together. Our kids were close in age and we were both single mamas in our early 30’s. We had a lot in common. I am not a hugger but do you think that stopped Hiedei  from hugging me?? NOPE lol and I can still remember exactly what her hugs felt like.

I miss her and think of her every day. I will never be convinced that the sun shines as bright as it did when she was here. Even though we haven’t been a part of each others daily lives for a while, I still feel the loss daily.

Miss you and love you.

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Jacqueline Moran
2005, Kandahar, Afghanistan
I met Hiedei while deployed. We used to hang out at the coffee shop every night. She was so beautiful. She always had a smile and a laugh, no matter what the conditions were. She wanted the best for everyone. 

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