My deepest sympathy goes out to all of Hema’s family, especially her husband, Goutham, her son, Surya, her sister, Varshini, and her mother and father.
No parent should have to bury a child.
Hema and Goutham deserved over 50 years of marriage together, not less than 5.
And little Surya deserves to know who his amazing mother was, and how much she loved him.
I was lucky enough to know Hema both professionally and personally. At work, Hema was a natural leader, always looking to better herself and those around her. She was fearless at work, going to Toastmaster meetings to hone her skills as a public speaker, organizing events for the Women Leaders in Action employee resource group, reaching out to very senior people to convince them to participate in their events, and developing tools to ultimately help patients get access to the medicine that they needed. She was brilliant and curious and had a very promising and successful career at AbbVie.
On the personal side, Hema was always kind and compassionate, always showing concern for others, encouraging us to make good choices for our own health and longevity. Always sharing a good Harvard Business Review article, a favorite book (like Name of the Wind by Patrick Rothfuss) or a favorite game (like Ticket to Ride, Poetry for Neanderthals, etc.). Always putting in effort to stay connected to people she cared about. When I retired, Hema put “meetings” on my personal calendar so that we would be sure to stay in touch regularly. When she came to my house for dinner one night, we spent hours looking at photos and videos of little Surya. Surya, your mom clearly loved you so very much.
Hema will always be remembered for her kindness, intelligence, compassion and leadership. May she rest in peace, and may her dear and heartbroken family find comfort and solace in knowing how very much Hema was loved and how many lives she touched in her far too short time on this earth.