I inadvertently left my notes at home when I went off to the celebration of life service, so I decided to wing it. I promised that I'd post my remarks here, so that's what this is. In speaking to a friend before the service, I remembered how The remarks I'd prepared started, so the first bit of this is is part of what I said from the podium.
I married Helen 34 years ago (in this very sanctuary) because God told me to take care of her. This was the deepest and most specific impulsion I had ever felt from God up to that time. As a Christian Scientist, I knew that this didn’t mean that God wasn’t taking care of her—He always has and always will—but that at that point, she needed and deserved a human manifestation of that care. The more I learned more about Helen, the more amazed I was at all that she’d gone through—the hardships she had overcome and the individual success she was gradually gaining.
So my prayer now is “Thank you, God, for letting me be a part of Your care for Helen, for allowing me to experience so much of her care and devotion.
Jesus’ parable of the laborers who get the same pay whether they had worked the full day or just the last hour seems confusing, but I’ve always let it sit quietly in my thought, awaiting my understanding, and now I think I’ve found an application: Many of us have known Helen for a long time. But since she was always working on broadening her range, some are new friends. So whether we’ve worked with her the full day or just the last hour, we can all consider ourselves blessed.
And today we can fill things in for each other. That’s why we are here. You may have heard me say that we all all trustees now of the qualities we saw in Helen. Today we learn about and celebrate those qualities, and tomorrow we put them into practice in our own lives.
Helen would have us learn more about beauty and joy. I could expound all day on these words—and I might, if you come up to me at the reception following this service. But I just wanted to say a little about joy right now. The Bible, which Helen loved, uses the word “joy” as a verb sometimes. Where the King James Version says that God “will joy over thee with singing”, another Bible translation I was looking at recently says “He will celebrate with singing because of you”. That stood out to me because we’re calling this service a celebration of life.
I have more to say, but instead of me going on, I’ve written the rest of my ramblings into the program. And now to continue our focus on joy, let’s sing hymn number 75.