Memories of Heather Jay Cox

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Heather Jay Cox

Struthers, OH

May 13, 1976 - March 26, 2026

May 13, 1976 - Mar 26, 2026

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Dzung Vo

2012, San Francisco, CA, USA

Heather and Gigi's wedding

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Leslie Brody

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

You captured such wonderful moments with these You captured such wonderful moments with these You captured such wonderful moments with these

Dzung Vo

2012, San Francisco, CA, USA

Heather and Gigi's wedding

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Leslie Brody

Tiff Newby

2007, San Francisco, CA

Heather and Gigi lighting it up at Drift

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Gigi Otalvaro

Leslie Brody

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Gigi Otalvaro

Those were the days, Tiff! Thank you for sharing XOXO. Hope to see you on 7/11! Those were the days, Tiff! Thank you for sharing XOXO. Hope to see you on 7/11! Those were the days, Tiff! Thank you for sharing XOXO.... Read more

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Part 2 of Heather's talk and guided meditation at the New Living Expo, in San Mateo, CA (May 2022), titled "Multidimensional Self Mastery through Toning with Heather Jay Part 2: Cosmic Womb Portal Activation."

These videos were part of Heather’s “Sound Journey,” originally shared on her website: https://www.knowthyself.me/so…

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Part 1 of Heather's talk and guided meditation at the New Living Expo, in San Mateo, CA (May 2022), titled "Multidimensional Self Mastery through Toning with Heather Jay."

These videos were part of Heather’s “Sound Journey,” originally shared on her website: https://www.knowthyself.me/soundjourney

Because personal websites can change or disappear over time, I’ve preserved this page through the Internet Archive so her work can continue to be experienced.

If the original page is no longer available, you can access an archived version here (copy and paste into your browser):

https://web.archive.org/web/2…

Additional pages from her site have also been preserved on the Internet Archive. Copy and paste this link into your browser: https://web.archive.org/web/20260405053745/https://www.knowthyself.me

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Rebecca Eacho

Heather cared for everyone and her concern was genuine. I was always touched when she and Gigi would ask me to text them when I arrived home safe from the Caltrain or Uber. The irony is that I always felt the most safe with them.

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Leslie Brody

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

heather loved you so much! and I still love you :) thank you for posting heather loved you so much! and I still love you :) thank you for posting heather loved you so much! and I still love you :) ... Read more

Rebecca Eacho

During Pride

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Leslie Brody

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

I think that's the year we had a very packed itinerary. Good thing Virgos like you and me could keep us on... Read more I think that's the year we had a very packed itinerary. Good thing Virgos like you and me could keep us on track! I think that's the year we had a very packed itinerary.... Read more

Rebecca Eacho

I remember a color-coded spreadsheet courtesy of your household lol I remember a color-coded spreadsheet courtesy of your household lol I remember a color-coded spreadsheet courtesy of your... Read more

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

I love spreadsheets! I love spreadsheets! I love spreadsheets!

Rebecca Eacho

Radiant! Heather taught me the importance of expressing joy without reservations and while being in the present.

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

I'm trying to place that image.... hmmmm.... I'm trying to place that image.... hmmmm.... I'm trying to place that image.... hmmmm....

Rebecca Eacho

I can’t remember where I took this photo. Looks like it’s outside in between buildings…it was definitely ... Read more I can’t remember where I took this photo. Looks like it’s outside in between buildings…it was definitely in SF I can’t remember where I took this photo. Looks like... Read more

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

I think it was that annual party near Dolores Park where we took you that year! I think it was that annual party near Dolores Park where we took you that year! I think it was that annual party near Dolores Park ... Read more

Rebecca Eacho

San Francisco, CA, USA

Heather always looked like she was 2 steps ahead of everyone with her serenity and wisdom.

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Such an amazing photograph! Thank you for your beautiful words Such an amazing photograph! Thank you for your beautiful words Such an amazing photograph! Thank you for your beautiful... Read more

Rebecca Eacho

San Francisco, CA, USA

A candid snap of Heather during Pride- one of my favorite photos of her

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Nena Sinclair

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Nena Sinclair

What a great photo :) What a great photo :) What a great photo :)

Jamie Seet

What I remember about Heather the most is her 1000 watt smile & her warm heart. She was always upbeat & brimming with positivity.

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Nena Sinclair

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Nena Sinclair

So true Jamie. Thank you for sharing this! So true Jamie. Thank you for sharing this! So true Jamie. Thank you for sharing this!

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Thank you Jamie! And thanks for being a part of our community... I'll never forget when we got on the phone... Read more Thank you Jamie! And thanks for being a part of our community... I'll never forget when we got on the phone (I think Heather and... Read more Thank you Jamie! And thanks for being a part of our... Read more

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Shared a heart

Ravi Chhatpar

— with Ravi Chhatpar

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Nena Sinclair

I LOVE THIS!!! I LOVE THIS!!! I LOVE THIS!!!

Ravi Chhatpar

— with Ravi Chhatpar

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

fun memories of what happened to your beautiful suit! thank you for being with us on our special day XOXO... Read more fun memories of what happened to your beautiful suit! thank you for being with us on our special day XOXO fun memories of what happened to your beautiful suit!... Read more

Nena Sinclair

2007, Carmel, CA, USA

Me and Heather having fun posing at Cristina Nuki's wedding. Never a dull moment and always super stylish!!!

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

we had such good times with you - from california, to miami, to NY! thank you for sharing XOXO we had such good times with you - from california, to miami, to NY! thank you for sharing XOXO we had such good times with you - from california, ... Read more

Nena Sinclair

2007, Carmel, CA, USA

Me and Heather having fun posing at Cristina Nuki's wedding. We have so many fun memories in CA with her and Gigi!

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

such a fun weekend! thanks for sharing XOXO such a fun weekend! thanks for sharing XOXO such a fun weekend! thanks for sharing XOXO

Andrew Sanchez

San Francisco, CA, USA

Supper Club craziness 😂

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Andrew Sanchez

Leslie Brody

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

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Andrew Sanchez

We had SO much fun. Heather and I decided we would make a very attractive child 😂 We had SO much fun. Heather and I decided we would make a very attractive child 😂 We had SO much fun. Heather and I decided we would ... Read more

Leslie Brody

Where was I?? Probably working lol Where was I?? Probably working lol Where was I?? Probably working lol

Gigi Otálvaro-Hormillosa

Wow... blast from the past. Thank you for sharing! Wow... blast from the past. Thank you for sharing! Wow... blast from the past. Thank you for sharing!