I’ve know Hans all my life. Hans and Jette were my parents closest friends. As my parents wrote, we travelled everywhere with the Marosfalvys, and have many happy memories. I’ve been remembering with my parents and brother some of these stories and want to share a few of my favorite.
Hans loved his German culture - it’s probably one of his many endearing qualities. We were fortunate to be the Marosfalvy’s travelling companions for 3 weeks around Germany. We saw many incredible sites and cities, but what truly made it special was all the family he introduced us to. One of the first stops after we arrived was to go for dinner at Großmutter and Tante Berta’s house in Reutlening. They treated us to German feast of sausages, pretzel bread, ham, cheese and crackers, as well as a delicious strawberry pie topped with whipped cream for dessert. All the kids got German chocolates as a treat (I’ve been re-reading my trip diary). We got to stay at Hans’ brother’s place (Roland and Renate) and we were treated to a performance of Der Vogelhändler, an open air operetta, one of the nights we were there…tying in Hans’ love of German music. After this trip, I started taking German in high school - I wanted to be able to better understand and communicate with Hans in his native language. It was fun to practice and see the delight on Hans’ face when I could successfully put sentences together.
German poppy seed roll, or Mohnstrudel is one of my favourites, which Hans introduced to us. I remember one lunch outside of the Meersburg castle where we all had cake - I had a massive piece of this delictible treat - sehr gut. When Hans and Jette came to stay with us in Stratford, I had a freshly baked poppyseed roll cooling on the counter when they arrived, which Hans proceeded to devour with great pleasure.
He loved his Ford Taurus - it was impeccably clean and had to remain that way always. I remember multiple camping trips - the Taurus had the air conditioning and the zephyr station wagon did not - so as a kid, we always preferred riding in the Taurus on the hot travel days. Another odd but favorite memory was his BBQ’d chicken. I don’t know what was so special and delicious about it, but I remember him hovering and fussing over the bbq to make sure it was just right, usually cooking it at the cottage in the dark. We couldn’t get enough of those delicious chicken legs.
He had his share of quirks and adventures - he was frugal, questioning or complaining about the cost of something, but was very generous and caring. I loved spending time at our cottage with him. Most of it was sailing, but there was the one time when our neighbour offered to take us out waterskiing. Hans tried it and did a perfect split as they accelerated. Full marks for effort, but what resulted was the prettiest purple, pink and blue bruise that carried up his entire leg. He was a trooper.
Having to say goodbye to both Jette and Hans just months apart has been so hard, as I’m sure many are feeling the same as I. So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye. Wir lieben dich, Hans. Du bist wirklich etwas Besonderes – einzigartig. Wir werden dich vermissen.