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Gordon "Gord" Darrold Banry

Gold Hill, OR, USA

1945 - March 26, 2021

1945 - Mar 26, 2021

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Jason Burton

As kids, Rachael and Lincoln and I used to develop mystery scenarios similar to those featured in the game Clue. Occasionally Uncle Gord put his sharp, investigative mind up against what we thought were nearly insolvable scenarios. Even so, within seconds of processing the clues, Uncle Gord presented the ideal solution. For what represented our best efforts, he'd flash his customary warm smile and congratulate us on presenting a worthy challenge.

I will forever love Uncle Gord. He spent so much of his time silently doing good for others to whom he was impressively attentive. His memory brings an upbeat to my life. Thank you, Uncle Gord. :)

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Nate Burton

Uncle Gord had the unique ability to make a child and an adult laugh at the same time. I remember thinking each time we would visit: Uncle Gord is still funny! His laugh and smile were contagious. He also had a fun, innocent way of teasing, like: "Natey, careful there are snakes in that water" ... but my feeling of panic was short lived because Gord couldn’t help but giggle.
I loved Uncle Gord!

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Kari Duron

I've known the family for years from a distance. I absolutely loved seeing Brother Banry at the temple! I don't know that he ever knew my name but the warmth & smile on his face made me always feel like he was my friend. I knew his laugh, he had a great laugh. Wonderful memories of a great man of faith & love of family have been shared. My prayers go out to this amazing family for your loss.
Kari Duron

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Mandy (Grether) Spencer

I was blessed to be able to know Gordon and the Banry family for most of my life. Ellen and Gordon (and Debbie), used to babysit me from about the time I was 4, when my parents worked. So many memories of Gordan include his teasing and "Dad jokes", but I also have very fond memories of his kind and tender heart. He was always like a second dad, and it has been comforting to know that he was always just down the road. We were one of the several family's that would receive the lucky call that Ellen had just baked some "extra" bread or "too much" soup, and could he come bring some to us. We always enjoyed his visits, jokes and big hugs when he would drop them by. One of the last memories that I will hold dear is when Gordan recently came down to our house one night this winter to give me a priesthood blessing of healing. He came prepared, and the love and spirit he left meant so much to me. Gordan has left a great legacy and will be dearly missed.

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Steve Banry

Uncle Gord will be missed dearly! I can’t say enough of the thanks he deserves. I loved hearing him recently tell me of the love he has for me and that he was “proud of me and the steps I’m taking”. I loved growing up with an Uncle and this wonderful family and the jokes played on each other. His hug and smile will never be forgotten! Love Steve

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Judee Brown

Gordon was my neighbor for a while in Gold Hill. Our kids played together growing up. He helped Ron give blessings for our sick children. I was pregnant with Tiffany at that time. He and Ellen were concerned they would have to drive me to the hospital while Ron was out driving for work!! I remember Gordon’s log truck; my kiddos loved to watch him wash it! Ryan wanted to grow up and buy a log truck on sale! Gordon was always ready to give a helping hand. After my car wreck, declining Ron asked him to come wheel the garbage out for us. He was happy to do so. Mostly, I remember Gordon being ready and prepared to offer an inspired, beautiful Priesthood blessing on a moment’s notice. He lived his life in preparation for those moments. I am so grateful he gave Ron his last Sacrament. I miss you Gordon.

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Becky Hicks

My brother Gordon was one of the kindest, wisest, funniest, most wonderful persons I ever knew! He was an amazing brother. My sister Gwen was approximately
5 1/2 years younger than Gord, and I was a little over 4 years younger. The differences in our ages never seemed to make a difference to Gord though, especially when he wanted to play “Cowboys and Outlaws”. He played the part of the outlaw the majority of the time, and he really got into the role! We lived in the country most of our childhood, so we could roam many acres, pretending we were in the wilderness tracking Gord down, after he had single handedly robbed a bank or a stage coach. He was very good at convincing Gwen and I that he truly was a mean, heartless Bandit! After pursuing him over many acres, with him hiding behind bushes and trees and volleying rounds and rounds of pretend bullets at us, he would finally let us corner him in a canyon, where we would have an epic shoot out! We were all riddled with bullet holes, but Gord’s wounds were always fatal. He did not give up easily though. He would begin by falling straight back over a fallen log, then crawl up an incline, and roll down the other side. If there was a creek nearby, he would stumble across the rocks to the other side, dragging himself out of the water. This would go on forever with him managing to stay just ahead of us. Finally though, he would stand up, and grasping his bullet ridden chest he would stagger left, then right, then
makings one finale half spin he would finally fall on his back to the ground! All of this was accomplished without once losing his hat!
Our memories of these times with Gord will stay with Gwen and I forever. Thank you for the sweet memories dear Gord❤️

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Ken Ball

Gordon was one of the happiest people we have known. He always had a welcoming smile and twinkle in his eye that just made you feel good inside. When I moved into the ward he was the one that made me feel most welcome. It was great to serve with him on various service projects. He was a great neighbor and friend, always willing to help anyone. He came to my rescue once when my truck got stuck and helped me get it unstuck. Gordon would often check in on Tami when she was single to see if there was anything she needed. He was so thoughtful and kind. Tami and I want the family know how much we love them and are so sorry that Gordon was called home so soon. We will miss him immensely and pray that you may find comfort in the knowledge that you will see him again and be with him. Sending our love and tender thoughts.
Ken and Tami Ball

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Lance Weaver

Gordon was quick to shake your hand, quick to tease, quick to smile and had the best giggle ever. I doubt he ever met a stranger. He is and will forever be one of my favorite people. We always looked forward to attending church and my children would look for the guy that would ALWAYS come by and shake their hands with a smile - "how are you young man?". That was what he was.... happiness.... love.... kindness.... and simply an amazing person.

I can hear his voice sharing his favorite poem... "'Twas battered and scarred,........By the Touch of the Masters' Hand." That poem will forever be a cherished memory. I love you Gordon, til' we meet again.

All our love to Ellen and the entire immediate and extended family, especially Uncle Lincoln. We love all of you and you are in our prayers. Lance

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Kimberly Huffman

Some of my fondest memories of my Uncle Gordon were many years ago as a child when Gordon was in the freight business. Gordon would take ferries back and forth from Friday Harbor to Anacortes with the freight trucks. Gordon would come visit us while waiting for the ferry on many occasions .... he would play what we called as kids "Uncle thump dragon" I remember , Gordon would chase us in a slow walking and stomping like a scary thumping noise with his loud feet and his hands reaching way up tall trying to catch us. I think we use to run and say he's a dragon and he will breath fire on us, don't let him catch you! We would run circles around the house screaming at the tops of our lungs , turning off lights and scared silly and always wanting "more" of it, he would chase us around, catch us on occasion until he was too tired and had to rest or leave to catch a ferry on time! I also remember a time when we went for a scenic drive around Washington Park and Ellen and Gordon missed their ferry and may have stayed the night! I wish for peace and love for everyone during this difficult time. Until we meet again. We love you Uncle Gordon! Love, Kimmy

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Sarah Aley

Ellen and Gordon’s relationship has always been an inspiration to me. Their example kept me from accepting an unsuitable companion. I asked myself, “will I have what Gordon and Ellen have if I marry this person? “ When the answer was no, the choice was easy.
Gordon was as close to me as my biological brother. From the time he and Ellen first married he seemed to belong to our family.
Recently, I asked him to help us replace water damaged flooring in our daughter’s house. He didn’t even pause, but asked when would we begin. That was Gordon; my brother, my friend.

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John and Gwen Burton

My incredible brother Gordon Banry passed on Friday, March 26, 2021. He was truly one of the dearest and most loved individuals ever!! He was always there for for anyone at any time! He had a heart of gold and consistently put others first!! He had the most contagious smile and laugh and loved to laugh and make others laugh!! If you were around him ... I promise ... you would end up laughing too!! Sometimes his jokes were corny and sometimes they were on him!! He didn’t care ... as long as you ended up laughed!! One time he fell asleep and my daughter-in-law painted his nails bright red! He woke up and my granddaughters were hysterically laughing ... so was he!! One of my favorite stories of him was when he was about 16 or 17. I would have been about 10 or 11. We had a Church party in the big pond up the creek by our house. We put up a long rope that swung out over the pond so so we could jump in! It was so much fun and all the kids were having a blast!! Gordon grabbed the rope and before he could get a good grasp ... his hands slipped down the rope, his swim trunks caught on a branch sticking out on the inside of the pond wall and pulled them right off of him!!! The momentum of the rope swung him out a little further ... without trunks. The siblings were yelling ... let go, let go!!! Gordon finally did when he finally snapped out of being in shock!! Everyone did a big gasp ... followed by complete silence ... then a roar of laughter!!! Which Gordon joined in on along with everyone else!!! I believe Becky and I got him a couple of towels to wrap around him!! But that was the best party story told for years!! Anyone there has reflected back on it even to this day!! Gordy and his contagious sense of humor, his laugh and his smile will be soo missed!!! We love you Gordy!!!!!❤️❤️

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Becky Hicks

Thanks for a wonderful tribute to Gord, and a fabulous trip down memory lane! Very well done❤️ Thanks for a wonderful tribute to Gord, and a fabulous trip down memory lane! Very well done❤️ Thanks for a wonderful tribute to Gord, and a fabulous... Read more

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Natalie Huffman

I’ve known Gordon since I was 16, and he’s been my brother in law for 53 years. I’v always loved being around Gordon and Ellen. When Gordon would tell a joke, he’d always laugh at the end of it like he’d just heard it for the first time, or just told it for the first time.
I have never been around a couple so in love as Ellen and Gordon. After a blessing on the food was said, they would always kiss. So Scott and I decided we were going to beat them to a kiss at the end of each Prayer. So as soon as everyone said , “Amen” we would kiss to beat them to it. And I’m happy to say that doing that, helped our love to grow.
I’m sure Scott was waiting on the other side of the Veil to Welcome Gordon with a big brotherly hug. And some day we will all be reunited.
Love you , Natalie

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Savannah Spencer

Ever since I was a little girl, I looked forward to greeting "Brother Banry" at church. He was always the first to approach you with a firm handshake and warm smile. As I got older, I became one of his targets for sacrament invocations :) Loved Gordon like a grandpa. He will be missed❤️

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Ken Barber

Gordon was a good friend. We love his sense of humor, his integrity, his faith in Christ and his devotion and love of family. We especially at this time love that he took all of those things with him, because that’s who he is. Till we meet again;
Debbie & Ken Barber

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Brian Fisher

Gordon will be missed. I mostly knew him as Brother Banry and that has been for at least 40yrs or so. He was always with his smile. It made me feel like he thought of me as a friend. He will most definitely be missed.

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Justin Idiart

Gordon was always the first to greet you walking into church. I’m going to miss that smile and handshake. He leaves a legacy of faith and love in our valley.

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Lincoln Banry

My last memory of my dad was patting him on the shoulder, kissing his head and telling him I loved him. He smiled back at me and his whole face lit up the way it does when he smiled, and through the pain he said "I love you too, Linc". That is one of a million memories of my dad I will cherish.

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