1978, Bel Air High School, North Yarbrough Drive, El Paso, Texas, USA
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I’ve been trying to find the perfect words to express my gratitude to you. When I think of you I think of “strength”. I have known you for over 25 years as the woman who brought my wonderful husband into this world and raised him to be an incredible man, but you did much more than that. You had such a strong outer covering that many would considered “rough” but inside was filled with so much softness and love as evidenced by the care you provided to your children, family and the elderly people you worked with. You gave so much without even realizing it! To care for such a vulnerable population takes a special person and that was you. I wanted so bad to tell you before you left us, but know that your son is in good hands, I will continue to love and cherish him for you. Thank you so much for giving him to me 24 years ago because I know he was and still is one of your prized possessions. I’m glad I’ve been able to contribute to your legacy through your grandchildren and they are proud to carry on your name. We love you forever, Momma G.
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Hi mama g. I wish I could be with you now, but unfortunately I wont be able to see you pass. I hope that you'll be able to read my message before god brings you to him. I heard the news from my mom, and I cant do anything from here. I wish that I could see you before you pass. To feel your hugs and laugh with you just one last time. You have supported me and believed in me when the actions amd things ive done would've made anyone not want to be around me. And yet you and my parents stood fast with me. And I know my parents who have supported me through thick and thin. Who've dealt with me through every storm. For a small time there i believe that even they had there fears that I wouldnt be a good person ( I dont blame them, I feel like any sane person wpuld feel the same way. ) I cant describe the way I feel. Im usually so good with words, but I cant describe how you've made such an impact in my life. There are no words in the dictionary that i can use. that can showcase your importance in my life. I want you to know that I see everything you’ve done not just for me, but for our family. Your sacrifices, your patience, your endless care they mean more than I can ever put into words. You’ve created a legacy of love that will live on through all of us. I hope you feel proud of the incredible life you’ve lived and the way you’ve touched so many hearts, especially mine.
Even though it’s hard to imagine life without you, I want you to know that your love will always be with me. It’s in the way I carry myself, in the lessons I pass on, and in the love I try to give to others. I will never forget you. You are, and always will be, a guiding light in my life.
Thank you, , for being my teacher, my cheerleader, my safe place, and my friend. I love you more than words could ever express, and I hope you feel that love every single day. You have made my life richer, fuller, and happier just by being you
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Hey momma g , I don’t even know where to start, You have always supported me through everything I’ve ever wanted to do and you would always brag to everyone about how good your grandson is doing, and if I felt like nobody supported me Ik my momma g did. Momma g thank you for always believing in me and blessing me with a dad like mine, thank you mama g for loving me unconditionally and standing by my side, Ill never forget the impact that you made in my life and I will continue to make u proud momma g. It crazy because there were so many times I didn’t even believe in my self and here comes my momma g putting money that Im going to succeed. Honestly momma g I don't know how life without you will look but Ik you will always watch over your grandson and be there when I succeed or when I fail. You will always be the best grandma I could ever ask for and nobody can take the memories that we had together away. And to end this off I love u momma g with all my heart-your grandson Jaybuggey
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Mom, you gave me the best gift known to man, the gift of life. I am so proud to have had a mother like you. You were the first person who gave me and showed me the meaning of unconditional love. You were just a child yourself when I came along but you whipped me into shape; literally. I can hear you saying, “do as I say, not as I do.” Smh How can I repay you for what you taught me and what you have given me and all the sacrifices you made for me and the people you allowed into your circle. Momma, you are probably one of the most proud, strong and independent people I know. You were a fighter and I believe you would have taken a bullet for any of your loved ones if it came down to it. Hahaha those doctors talking about my momma wouldn’t make it back home, you showed them. I only have one regret, I wished I would have spent more time with you when I was younger. You were my mother and father all wrapped up in one and irreplaceable. I love you with my whole heart mom and that will never change, and I miss you so much I feel like a part of me died 12/07/2025. But, you will always be alive in my heart from now until the time I take my last breath. The memories of you will never die and your face will forever be sketched in my mind.
From: the little boy you turned into a Man your son LaCarl DeVon Childress
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