I'm so very proud of my dad's professional accomplishments - they set the stage for me to follow in his footsteps and become a chiropractor myself. I love having that in common with my dad, and while it took me quite awhile to get used to, I'm so very proud to be called Dr. Clum, just like him.
I'm so very proud of the example he set in life to be a good human being - I'd like to think that I've followed in his footsteps in that way, too. He was such a kind, ethical, diplomatic man, and clearly well loved.
And with all of that, which is A LOT, I think I'm *most* proud of him as a grandfather to my daughter, Kaiya. She absolutely adored him, and their connection was so apparent, so sweet, so genuine. He saw her as whole and perfect, not as an imperfect child with a diagnosis, and he told her everyday how brilliant, capable, loving and kind she was. He gave me permission to also see her as whole and perfect, and gave me the strength and love to embrace the life and lessons she offers.
I firmly believe that upon death, one is met with unconditional love and complete understanding of the mosaic of their lives, understanding how each and every piece, big and little, is interconnected. And I find immense peace in knowing that my brilliant father, the man that impacted me, Kaiya and so many during his time in *this* realm, now literally knows everything. And I have no doubt that he is still with Kaiya and me as we continue this journey together, and I couldn't be more grateful for that.