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Met Garry in 1980 when I came out he was a sweet man. We met at rumour Hazitin garden grove . He worked at toys r us . He is the reason I met my husband of 35 yrs ... Garry I’ll miss u , u r good memory’s.
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John P. Ilvento
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After going on disability, I wanted to volunteer...to give back and since I was a volunteer down in San Diego for Being Alive it seemed a natural decision to volunteer here in Los Angeles. From the moment I met Garry it was easy to liked him. I don't think I've ever saw him, without a smile. What really won me over though was when I needed help with a particular difficult legal dilema that most were afraid to give me advice on, he pulled me aside and told me if I would ask him about an imaginary story and then he winked and paused to say I might be able to give you an ending to that story...and he did. I always felt important there even though I only work one day a week and part of that was being thanked by Garry for my service...I can't tell you how many times. You will be missed Garry and thank YOU for your service!
Thank you Gary for "Being Alive" and bringing so much HEART to this special place called West Hollywood on this planet called Earth.

You're in a beautiful peaceful place now. May you always know how grateful I am that you created so many resources for those in need medically, physically, emotionally and to those who like myself were putting our expertise to use with the client's of Being Alive.

God's love be with you always... your husband and your families.

Daniel Hernandez
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So I'm an HIV physician at UCLA CARE and I frequently refer patients for services at Being Alive. The organization has been so very helpful, client focused, accessible, and effective in linking people to needed financial, mental health and other services. I'm so very thankful that Garry and the team have created such a lovely resource for our community and know that Garry's spirit and hard work will continue onwards until we end the HIV epidemic.
my sincerest condolences Jeff. He was a kind soul. I send you courage
Gerard Talbot
One of the sweetest people I had the honor to meet....my deepest condolences to Jeff, family & friends...🙏💙🌈
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Gone too soon. May Garry rest in peace. His battle in this life is done and he may be at eternal rest.
My heart aches for your loss Jeff. You are blessed to have so many years of memories, family and friends to share them with. You will never walk alone Jeff, Garry will always be by your side. Peace be with you.
I've only known Garry for a short time and found how wonderful he was right away. I only wish I had known him much longer and could share more memories.

A terrible loss for us all.
Our deepest sympathies. Garry was an amazing man and every conversation I had with him these past two years was full of joy and purpose.
Jeff, my sincere condolences for your unimaginable loss. My thoughts are with you in this sad time. Cherish the wonderful memories of Gary knowing that he will always be a part of you for ever. May Gary rest in peace!
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Bernie
Jeff, my deepest and sincere condolences for this untimely loss. My heart and prayers are with you in these difficult moments, and be sure that my prayers are dedicated to Gary's knowing for sure, that now you have an Angel taking care of you from heaven, Rest in Peace!!!
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Garry wondering if it was tim…
2018, West Hollywood, CA, USA
Garry wondering if it was time to color his hair?
Jamie Baker
2008, Long Beach, CA, USA
I was diagnosed with HIV in 2008, and after being pretty sick and adjusting to medications, I looked for a way to get involved in my new community.

So, I walked into the Long Beach AIDS Foundation and met Garry Bowie. He was welcoming, good-natured, and a warm smile on his face. He listened to my story - he loved hearing stories - and then announced that I would be the volunteer coordinator.

Over the next year, I learned a lot about Garry. He did not keep secrets and he didn’t hold back. I think his daily goal was to make me blush...and he succeeded.

Garry’s passion for the cause, and more so, his passion for people was incredible. One time, he Befriended a homeless guy and followed him for a day to see what his life was like so he had a better idea of how to help. Garry did not hesitate to bring people in, feed them, give them a place to stay for a while, and make them feel important.

Everyone felt important around Garry. He made them feel valued regardless of how they felt about themselves. He changed lives. I can say without a doubt that he changed mine.

Jamie Baker
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