Dylan,

I just sent you $1,000 on Ever Loved. I’m doing it because you have the wherewithal—everything your mom worked so hard to instill in you. You have the capability, clarity, and resilience to navigate what comes next. But having that kind of strength also means people will expect a lot from you, and that brings pressure and decisions no one your age should have to face alone.

I want you to know you don’t have to carry all of that by yourself. If you ever need help thinking something through, making a plan, or just having someone steady to talk to, reach out. I’m here whenever you need me.

—Mark

Your mom was an absolute joy to be around while we were growing up and will truly be missed by many. I am so sorry for your loss. 

I don't know you or your mother at all, but I believe she was a wonderful person, and that you are good people. I want you to know that the people who don't even know you care about your well being.  I worked in restaurants for years. It's a good place for those with a heart for others. May you always feel the warmth and strength of your mother, family and good people around you. 

Words feel incredibly inadequate. Your mom was a fierce light in the world.  Strong, resilient, determined, brilliant, and kind.  She was most beautiful when she would talk about her kids- so much love and pride and joy. I wish I'd known her better but am grateful for  every time time our paths crossed over the past three decades.  I'm so sorry for your loss. You have an amazing family of people who loved her and love you, Please take good care of yourselves, and each other.  Wishing you comfort and hope.