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Elias "Eli" Solomon Slyder

New York, NY
June 21, 1976 - October 22, 2023
Jun 21, 1976 - Oct 22, 2023
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I met Eli my senior year at Connecticut College and fell madly in love with him. We had many lovely times together. I’m so sad to hear of his passing. I lost touch with him over 20 years ago, but always held a little piece of my heart for him. Sending my deepest condolences to his family. I’m so sorry for your loss 
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So sad to get this news and want to send my prayers and love to the family. Eli was a great childhood friend. We spent many summers, me, him and his cousin Steve building forts, swimming and having a great time. Memories I will never forget.  
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Courtesy of Ira Veridiano — with Eli Slyder
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Dear Caroline, Allegra, and Annabelle, I spoke with Caroline and Susie this past Monday.  We were so saddened to hear of the passing of Eli.  When we think of him, we remember in particular: his bright, welcoming smile; his sincere desire to wanting to find out more about how you are doing and feeling; his very interesting stories of his own life experiences; watching his amazing skills at the National Squash tournament in Philly; watching his enjoyment with cousins playing Bocci at Squirrel Island; and frankly, seeing Eli's love for all his Bartholomew family and friends.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and  We will miss him. Love, Terry and Annie XXXOOO
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Eli with family - mom (Caroline), dad (Louie) & sisters (Annabelle, Allegra)
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our 15 minutes of fame
our 15 minutes of fame
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Eli in the middle (of everything, everywhere!) - Eli in goal
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Eli with dad (Louie) - with the wooden tricycle that dad made for Eli - innovation and tinkering runs in the family!
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Eli & Grandpa Steve!!!
Eli & Grandpa Steve!!!
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Eli & Grandpa Steve!!!
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Eli with family - mom (Caroline), step-dad (Mitch) and sisters (Annabelle & Allegra) - Watkins Glen, NY
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Eli on the left - with ? (All…
Eli on the left - with ? (Allegra or mom probably know)
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Eli with mom (Caroline) - a mother's love is the strongest thing in the world!
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Nathan (cousin), Eli, Annabelle (sister) Allegra (sister), Casey (cousin) - Maine circa 1980
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Steven Looney
Gave to National Alliance on Mental Illness of New York City Metro in memory of Eli
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Rachel Shapiro
Gave to National Alliance on Mental Illness of New York City Metro in memory of Eli
$100.00
Rachel Shapiro
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Helping hands

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$7,145.00
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Recent contributions

$150.00
Steven Looney
Gave to National Alliance on Mental Illness of New York City Metro in memory of Eli
$100.00
Rachel Shapiro
Gave to National Alliance on Mental Illness of New York City Metro in memory of Eli
$100.00
Rachel Shapiro
Gave to City Squash in memory of Eli
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Recent contributions

$150.00
Steven Looney
Gave to National Alliance on Mental Illness of New York City Metro in memory of Eli
$100.00
Rachel Shapiro
Gave to National Alliance on Mental Illness of New York City Metro in memory of Eli
$100.00
Rachel Shapiro
Gave to City Squash in memory of Eli
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