Reflections of a life through a sister's memories (By Sharky)
As a sister, a sister-in-law in an auntie, I realize each of our reflections will be different . For me, i was the little sister with stars in her eyes when it came to her big sister.I looked up to her in so many ways.She was beautiful , vivacious , loving and I so wanted to be like her
I remember comet books that she would read to me.They often had advertisements about "the little monkey that fit in a teacup," Dinah thought that she and I should have one of those. So she wrote a letter trying her best to encourage the company to send one to her little sister.Although she did mention her little sister was in a wheelchair. Needless to say, I wasn't, and we did not get our monkey!
When we wanted to go skating at the rink, our neighbors would often find us pulling a little red wagon with vegetables from a garden piled high, hoping to sell enough to earn our skating tickets. She was such a good skater. And seemed to exhale both in skating moves as well as dancing moves! Yep, I wanted to be just like her!
She was kind to her little sister well. Most of the time, although there was a time that was an exception to the rule. We often walked thru the graveyard as a shortcut to get to the skating rink.And strangely, there was a swimming pool in the middle of it.When I inquired, she quickly told me unequivocally to never walk through our shortcut at dusk or night.Because that was when the bones went swimming to keep their bones clean and white. Certainly made an impression on my mind!
My most Vivid memory was me sitting on the bathtub rim with stars in my eyes. Watching my big sister get ready for a school dance.She had on one of the poophiest, most gorgeous gowns I had ever seen.She was beautiful and my very own Cinderella. I couldn't wait to be just like her.
Dinah, throughout her life had some hard knocks, but she always did her best to handle them the best she could and it wasn't always easy for her by any means or maybe even those around her. But when she met David Chance, he stole her heart, and while life's many challenges come and go, her love for Dave never wavered.
Thank you, Dave, for loving my sister for taking care of her through sickness and through health. You were her hero..and I know she loved you dearly as she did each and every one of the kids and grand kids
I will miss my sister very much. But will carry her in my heart always.
The angels have escorted you home , dear one!