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Deirdre Marie (Carsus) Drapeau, known to all who loved her as De, passed away unexpectedly on December 9, 2025, at Northern Light Eastern Maine Medical Center in Bangor, Maine, surrounded by her family.

Deirdre was born on October 26, 1963, in Worcester, Massachusetts, the daughter of J. Kenneth Carsus and Barbara (Listewnik) Carsus. She was a proud graduate of South High Community School in Worcester.

On September 7, 1985, De married Mark Drapeau. Together they …

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Mark and Leah and all of the Drapeau family, so sorry for your loss of De.  
Mark and Leah and all of the Drapeau family, so sorry for your loss of De.  
Mark and Leah and all of the Drapeau family, so sorry for your l…
So sorry to hear about De. She will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts. 
So sorry to hear about De. She will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts. 
So sorry to hear about De. She will be greatly missed. You are i…
I have no words for the great loss of you...I love you and and miss you. Thank you for all our hilarious and happy memo…
I have no words for the great loss of you...I love you and and miss you. Thank you for all our hila…
I have no words for the great loss of you...I love you and and m…
Dede had a beautiful light that she shared so effortlessly with everyone she met. She was genuine, funny, smart, and so…
Dede had a beautiful light that she shared so effortlessly with everyone she met. She was genuine, …
Dede had a beautiful light that she shared so effortlessly with …

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Born

October 26th, 1963
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Passed away

December 9th, 2025
Saint Albans, ME

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Deirdre "De" Drapeau