I'm one of the older (and yet luckier) guys that had the joy of knowing Craig - and it was real joy that would burst from him and envelop you whenever you were in his orb - and what an orb that was. Craig's presence was humongous, larger than life. His usual greeting was a giant bear hug - warm and embracing, uplifting and unavoidable, instantly evoking a smile and a sense of well-being. He could singlehandedly transform a dull and dreary beach day into fun and games - never going less than all out, and lo, the sun would shine! He had one speed and an unswerving approach to life summed up by the old Star Trek quote - "I'm giving her all she's got... (Scotty)." Craig gave that and then seemed to find more in some inner place. During our beach VB games and tournaments, it didn't matter who he was stuck playing with or how many turkeys were on him team, he always gave it all he had, and never begrudged teammates, or their screwups. For various reasons, I was fortunate to know the man behind the mask - and it was all there. He was complete. He exuded a gentleness, a kindness, and an intellectuality coupled with an unstoppable physicality that made him ever so special. His family and his friends meant everything to him - I am so profoundly sad to lose him as a friend and especially that burst of sunshine that came into the room when he did! He was a rock to lean on!
Through tears of overwhelming sadness, I share these words by Carol Elaine Faivre-Scott that are especially meaningful to me and help with wrestle with Craig's passing:
Each of us has a hidden place somewhere deep within ourselves; A place where we go to get away, To think things through, To be alone - to be ourselves. This unique place, where we confront our deepest feelings, becomes a storehouse of all our hopes, all our needs, all our dreams, and even our unspoken fears. It encompasses the essence of who we are and what we want to be.
But now and then, whether by chance or design, someone discovers a way into that place we thought was ours alone. And we allow that person to see, to feel and to share all the reason, all the uncertainty and all the emotion we've stored up there.
That person adds new perspective to our hidden realm, then quietly settles down in his own corner of our special place, where a bit of himself will stay forever. And we call that person a friend.
Craig, you were my friend.
Something Ralph Waldo Emerson said also comes to mind when I think if you: "It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them." So I remember the mirthful and joyful Craig, and the laughter and smiles come driving away the tears!
To Carrie and the kids - we mourn for you and pray that your grief eventually subsides and is replaced by the loving and fond memories Craig brought to each of you, as well as so many others. Love and prayers from a wounded heart, George