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I have fond memories of Cory always being up for a game. In particular, I remember when he taught us “Up The River, Down The River” and the whole time we were playing I kept calling it “Down The River, Up The River” (which is so obviously wrong given how the game is played) and his bemused smirk every time I kept saying the wrong thing.

Like many, I loved how much Cory loved babies, mine included. His joy was palpable and heart-expanding. He loved every size of human.

I couldn’t get enough of seeing Cory and his dogs. The glimpses of his delight, even if only on Instagram from far away, were getting to witness another angle of his zest for life.

I will treasure the many examples of his steadfast and genuine love for his people. How many times did we have baked French toast (&more) that he made? Our stomachs and hearts were so full. He lived out the Very Good News of God’s love for us, poured out in humble offering. 

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I still grin remembering Cory's bemusement at my thinking a hamburger qualified as roughage. He taught me many things (diet, child rearing, plasma) in addition to all the Biblical truths, which were taught both through study and living. The hospitality you two showed me in my early NYC days was the greatest demonstration of what the Christian life is about, and no doubt a big reason I'm clinging to Jesus today. May he comfort all of you in your grief. Kari Jo, I love you very much. May God comfort and carry you through these difficult days. He was faithful to give me you, and will faithful in getting you through what seems impossible.
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KariJo, my heart and prayers go out to you and your amazing family! I have been reading and crying for the last 20 minutes all of the comments posted. My intersection with both you and Corey has been brief but impactful. I always felt so loved and accepted by both you and Corey and our paths have crossed far too few times usually at church. I loved seeing his life lived out in the comments and pictures. His love for you and your family is evident in all the comments and pictures. His love and leadership for his co-workers was amazing to read. His love for our Lord was evident in how he loved others. He is an inspiration to me and I am a better person having known him. Our paths crossed last at Easter. Praying for a portion of the Lords daily grace to get you and your family through each day. It is hard to lose a loved one  at  any time, but especially suddenly. Continued prayers for you and the kids! I love you all. Jim McCormick aka Papa Mac

PSI want to be like Corey when I grow up! 

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Henry, Cory, and Betsy servin…
2017, Redeemer Presbyterian Church West Side, West 83rd Street, New York, NY, USA
Henry, Cory, and Betsy serving communion together
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2024, Minneapolis, MN, USA
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Jim Brewer
1992, Shawnee, OK, USA
I came to OBU in 1992 without a roommate or even an acquaintance on campus.  My intended roommate had a last minute change of plans and went elsewhere.  Cory and I met within the first week or so and became roommates.  We wound up sharing a room for 4 years as undergraduates, even when Cory could've had a private room as a Resident Advisor.  After graduation, he was the Best Man at my wedding.  Unfortunately, our paths led us to live nearly 1,500 miles away from one another since then.  I didn't keep in touch as well as I should've, but when both my parents passed away in 2022 just days apart, Cory made sure to check on me.  Some people have lots of friends and make new ones easily.  I don't.  Cory was my friend. 
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Cory was our family
2023
Cory was our family
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It’s impossible to pick a favorite memory of Cory. In the 19 years since we met there are too many shared laughs, smiles, chats, projects, and game nights to pick from. 

One that comes to my mind often is from early in our friendship. I was moving in to my first apartment without roommates and the movers had just left. Cory came over to help me start unpacking and organizing…of course he did. I was so overwhelmed and told him that I had no idea where to begin. He took my upside coffee table off a pile of boxes, flipped it over, and put it on the floor. He said…let’s just start by putting all the furniture right side up. It was such a simple statement but it has really stuck with me over the years. When I feel overwhelmed I think…just start by flipping the furniture upright….just start simple…don’t over think it. 

He and KariJo are also who taught me Settlers of Catan. We have played countless hours of Catan together. And man how Cory always won! You could often hear everyone else around the table saying…don’t trade with Cory any more! He’s beating us all by 5 points! Once in a blue moon I’d be winning in the beginning of the game but as Cory knew…I could never close out that win :)

Love you so much Cates family xoxo

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Kari Jo, Nathan, Henry, Betsy and Caroline - I love you all so much.  So thankful for all of you, that I got to be your neighbor, and I’m so thankful to have known Cory.  I’m praying for the Lords presence to surround you now and always.  Love you! 
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Kari Jo and family.  We are so sorry to hear of Corey's passing.  You are in our prayers during this difficult time.
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