To Colleen
By Gretchen Blais 9/28/73
How many times in one life can a person find a friend like you.
Someone who listens, who doesn't evaluate or judge, but just listens.
Sometimes I rattle on and I know or feel something coming from you.
It's new, it's different. I feel that I'm OK, I'm perfect the way I am; that's your message.
I feel strong. I have the ability to discover on my own the answers to my own dilemmas.
Whatever answer I choose is perfect and right and correct for me at the time.
I feel heard, I feel cared about, I feel accepted and affirmed.
All this is new for me and I'm grateful even as I'm not sure what to do with this new experience.
And, I'll figure it out.
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I live down the street from Colleen when she lived on Fleming in Oakland CA. Our kids did things together which set the stage for a friendship between us. I always appreciated Coleen's gentleness. Watching her and Bernie was a demonstration of how a healthy relationship could be. I was a better parent from observing Coleen. She was fun and gently funny. I'm grateful she came into my life. I visited her several times when she moved to Oregon and appreciated the contact so very much.
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1997, Sweet Home, OR, USA
Mom and Hero at the farm with a horse!
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I miss Colleen terribly. She was a loving sister to me. She knew how to make the best of life. C
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2015, Somerville, MA, USA
Being able to share my pregnancies and babies with Grandma was one of the most special things in the world. I remember when I was pregnant with Juni, I talked to her on the phone all the time. She told me how much she had loved being pregnant - she loved "having a little buddy" with her all the time. Babies and children were such a huge part of her life and she was amazing with them. You couldn't ask for a better grandma.
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2013, Champoeg State Park, Champoeg Road Northeast, Saint Paul, OR, USA
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2013, Champoeg State Park, Champoeg Road Northeast, Saint Paul, OR, USA
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2013, Champoeg State Park, Champoeg Road Northeast, Saint Paul, OR, USA
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2013, Champoeg State Park, Champoeg Road Northeast, Saint Paul, OR, USA
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2013, Champoeg State Park, Champoeg Road Northeast, Saint Paul, OR, USA
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2013, Champoeg State Park, Champoeg Road Northeast, Saint Paul, OR, USA
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2013, Champoeg State Park, Champoeg Road Northeast, Saint Paul, OR, USA
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