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In the quiet mornings, she sips her tea,

A collection of flavors, each a memory:

Chamomile whispers peace, lavender brings rest,

Earl Grey with bergamot, a lover's breath, confessed.

When she can't sleep? She drags out the turmeric and malde verde.

He, in contrast, used to cling to his black coffee,

No cream, just a touch of sugar, a bitter symphony.

Each sip a reminder of life’s raw edge,

No softness, no cushion, just the unrelenting dredge.

Her teas, delicate as she, fragile porcelain,

Cradle warmth, a fleeting comfort against the storm.

His coffee, stark, in a chipped, blackened mug,

A reflection of his soul, hardened, rough.

She misses the smell. Now if she makes it the cup stays untouched.

Next to the extra crispy bacon, the pork she refused to eat.

She brewed teas from gardens unknown,

Exotic leaves, strange blossoms, a world within a cup.

A ritual of solace in a life of mundane.

The table empty, just last December,

Their battleground, a dance of contrasts,

Her sweetness, his bitterness, a dance unchoreographed.

The air thick with unspoken words, like morning fog,

A silence that screamed louder than their ghosts.

The color to each others life.

Now all that's left is monotone, technicolor life.

Coffee untouched, a final sip never taken.

A smile, serene, on lips long acquainted with sorrow,

for now she has to live, live full , and live for him.

The man who used to count the days to retirement down to the hour.

The retired Marine.

The pastor with a PHD.

The rhino lover.

His eyes, open, gazing beyond tomorrow. Some place in the Saivo, just too far to reach.

He is still here , in the woodpecker at the park.

In the puffy clouds shaped like ravens in the sky.

Football is too hard to watch, but it wont always be ,

Ravens! or be damned!

In his cup, she found a humid floral leaf,

One she did not place.

Sleigh bells ring . . . faint joiking in her heart.

A token from her teas, she herself did not place.

A fragile symbol of a connection unvoiced.

Her tears mingled with the remains of his coffee,

A bitter brew, flavored with grief and love unspoken.

She drank it all, the last of his essence,

The bitterness, the sweet aftertaste of a life entwined.

In that final sip, she tasted the gore of reality,

The sharp sting of loss, the dull throb of love’s decay.

Their story, like tea and coffee, mixed and muddled,

No rhyme, no reason, just deep grief rendered brew.

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This was Tetomba her name mea…
2022, Timonium, MD, USA
This was Tetomba her name meant upside down in creole. He had to rescue her briefly from the graveyard, near where he lived, because she kept flipping herself over and almost drowning from exhaustion in the mud. He really had the time of his life with animals; they are some of the most beautiful images he ever took of himself or you can actually see his happiness shining through.
I remember the first time I r…
2022, Timonium, MD, USA
I remember the first time I really got super sick during our relationship. He did everything he could to make me laugh, including worshiping his Jesus avocado. I don’t think anybody will ever have as good of a sense of humor as him again.
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Our kiss in the park. I reall…
2022, Indianapolis Zoo, West Washington Street, Indianapolis, IN, USA
Our kiss in the park. I really wanted it to take it by the birds. He insisted on doing it around all of the Christmas lights because he didn’t know when we could do Christmas together again this is one of the things I’m extremely thankful for looking back on. You can even see him looking at me in the photo.
It’s honestly been two of the…
2022, Indianapolis Zoo, West Washington Street, Indianapolis, IN, USA
It’s honestly been two of the hardest months of my life . Our anniversary was this month and I just can’t help but think how overly Compassionate and giving he was . I truly wish more could’ve seen inside of the window that I got the opportunity to ; in the years that I was with him, he truly was my best friend. He knew all of my ups and downs . He often didn’t get to share his secrets with others, or open up about his world of imagination and love in history . This is one of the best photos that shows the spark he had inside of his soul.
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I’ve really been missing him …
2022, Turkey Run State Park, Park Road, Marshall, IN, USA
I’ve really been missing him lately. My mornings are empty without his humor and bright light and his insisting on saying good morning even when I was grouchy, this particular memory was, when he helped me earn my indigenous face tattoos the traditional way. He was always trying to find me magical fairies, wherever we went even in nature it’s always been one of my favorite memories.

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