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Memories are so valuable.  I am happy you live in mine Carolyn.  
Happy Birthday Cousin.    In my heart and memories always.
There are not enough words or tears…only memories of once was. Those memories serve to uplift, heal and sustain me because you were so very special and one of a kind.  No matter the miscommunication, hurt, or disillusion,  you still reside deeply in my heart and will always be loved. Happy heavenly 71st  birthday  Carolyn💕
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Mom,  your heavenly birthday is coming.  The reality is that I will grieve you forever .  I will not  “ get over “  the loss of you ; I have learned to live with it .  I will heal and I will rebuild myself around the loss I have suffered.  I will be whole again but never the same . Nor  should I be the same nor would I want to be . 

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In my memories and condolences comes silence.  A flow of smiles, laughs, tears and hurt. Sending my cousin a worldly Happy Birthday and keeping her alive in my heart. 
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There is a sacredness in tears. Of they are not a mark of weakness , but of power. They speak more eloquently then ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief and unspeakable love.
It’s almost two years to the date in which I lost you. The question I ask myself , does grief ever go away.  The answer is no. The weight and intensity of it lessons in which at some point becomes bearable. like a brick in your pocket …you forget it for a while and one day you reach in and it’s there. There it is …  Its not that grief is to be liked , but it’s what I have left instead of you. Grief isn’t linear . There are ebbs and flow . The day I can go to a location that was shared with you and smile , you know some progress has been made ….
Mom,  if you could hear me , I would say that your fingerprints in this world never fade from the lives you have touched . Whatever one does in his/her life will be insignificant. But it is very important you do it any way..I miss and love you. You and me…
As a whole we spend a great deal of time trying to avoid pain, but if we look carefully, life teaches us that pain demands to be felt and the universe likes to be noticed. No matter how hard we try , we don't get to choose if we get hurt. It is a certainty in life that we will experience the pain. Each of us should hope that in the end of our lives we can say we weren't hurt, but we chose wisely as to who hurt us . If we are careful when we pick our poison , we will be lucky enough to make our choices , making it all worth it.
Mom , it was the ultimate privilege to care for you. I am so lucky and blessed to be your son. I love you  immensely and miss you. You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world,but you do have some say in who hurts you . I like my choice.
Today, we should be celebrating your 70th trip around the sun, but God had other plans. I think of you so much and wish that I could talk with, laugh with, and reminisce with you just one more time. You will always be in my heart "baby sis". Happy Heavenly Birthday,

Love, Connie
It’s been a whole year mom and as I’ve looked over my shoulder it’s been hard not having you here. Mother’s Day wasn’t the same, I wasn’t able to call on your birthday, and for the first time I didn’t hear you on my birthday. We miss the small and large things you provided to us. But most of all we miss your love, smile, and willingness to serve all of us.

I remember this hymn at St. John Fisher that we would hear at Sunday mass which reminds me that you are resting well-

“ And He will raise you up on eagles' wings
Bear you on the breath of dawn
Make you to shine like the sun
And hold you in the palm of His hand”

I love you.
In a blink of an eye, a minute, an hour, a day, a month and than a year passes us by. It doesn't seem to get easier with fresh moments of memories flooding your heart and mind. With smiles and grief I am taken back to you here with me. In a blink of an eye. Always in Loving Memory my dear cousin Carolyn.
Sabrina Taylor Uridel
God , I miss you..
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Carolyn and family
2010, Oceanside, CA, USA
Carolyn and family
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Even as a little girl Carolyn…
Even as a little girl Carolyn was kind and nurturing. She would find smashed bugs, ants, Beatles and worms and make hospital beds out of match boxes and cotton so that she could nurse him back to health
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Carolyn and family members
2003, Tuscaloosa, AL, USA
Carolyn and family members
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I took thus photo of everyone…
2010, Connie & Louis's house in Oceanside
I took thus photo of everyone on Thanksgiving 2010.
We are so proud of the 40+ ye…
Pittsburgh, PA, USA
We are so proud of the 40+ years of nursing our mother served her patients. She was truly selfless in her service to others.
These pictures are horrid, bu…
1986, Los Angeles, CA, USA
These pictures are horrid, but she loved her boys and family photos were a big deal...:)
She LOVED coming to visit my …
1998, Boston, MA, United States
She LOVED coming to visit my friends and I in Boston! I am grateful for the sacrifices she made to allow me to pursue my education.
Big sister and little sister
Big sister and little sister
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