30 years ago I met Benny and we instantly became friends. I will always cherish the wonderful memories of us cutting class our senior year in high school, going out clubbing, shopping, and just handing out together. His presence was always welcoming, kind, and caring. I will greatly miss him. 

Bun, I’m so sorry you and your family going through this. I can’t imagine how painful this must be. Please know that I’m thinking of you and here if you need anything at all

Dear Chhun,

Since the day Benny picked up his assignment in class and came and sat  down right next to me just talking to me like we already new each other. My life has never been the same. I have amazing and  wonderful memories. Never  ever a dull moment. There is nothing in existance that I could ever trade this life for with out Benny. I know the SUPREME one true God of all existence has plans for him. There is no doubt in my mind your Dad needed a hand  clearing  the path to travel to the Heavens for us. For we still have a long road to get there. I also hope you love the memoral patchs that are comeing.  From my familly we gift to your family. I also designed a second one. The second one will be traded for donation from the friends of Benny and your family. 100% of  donation collected will be presented to your family. We know the the pain from your loss is great. While I can take the pain of your loss,  I here for support, a smile, help with a project, if you need a good debat, or someone to march into battle by your side, if you simply need a friend. Im still here with you until my time comes to travel to where Benny and all the loves ones that we have lost are.

Sincerely with love and condolences,

Pierre  "Dubby" DuBois

And The Du Bois Family

Bun, so sorry for your lost my family and will be keeping you and yours in our prayers.

4th of July at Grandparents

In our family, there was a circle of protection that never broke, and my Uncle was one of its strongest links. From the moment I was a baby through my years as a toddler, he was the steady hand and the watchful eye. While my dad was away working hard,Uncle stayed by my mom’s side to build our home. He was her closest light and my second father -the man who ensured that no matter how busy the world was, I was never alone. He  didn’t just help raise me, he stayed to see me grow into the woman and mother I' am today. He was there for every milestone, from my first steps to seeing me raise my two sons. He held the history of my life in his heart, and I will forever be grateful that I had his "cool shade" to grow under for all these years.To my mother, he was more than a brother, he was her partner in the sacred work of raising a family. Their bond was the heart of our household. He honored her by loving me, and he honored our family by staying a constant, protective force until the very end.You have moved from being our earthly protector to our spiritual guide. You watched over me as a baby, and now I know you will watch over my children's from the spirit world. You have fulfilled your duty to my mom, to my dad, and to me.Thank you for a lifetime of protection. As the monks chant for you, we send you all the merit of our family’s love. Go in peace, Uncle. You are our Hero, our Second Father, and our Eternal Guardian.