I will miss Brian dearly! He brought so much love and joy to everyone around him.

Linda

I have a friend, when he smiles, you can’t help but smile back.

I have a friend, who believes, in this world, anyone could accomplish great things if only they have the will to do it.

I have a friend, who loves to laugh and easily makes others laugh. Either calling the play by play during a card game , or being genuinely funny with his unique inflection and spectacular comedic timing.

I have a friend, who never uses flowery language or big words. In a large group he thinks about his words and shares only when he feels he might add something positive, corrective, poignant, or funny to the discussion.

I have a friend, who rarely talks about himself, but is happy to express his opinion if you ask. Mostly he is interested in what others have to say.

I have a friend, who is perfectly content to sit silently with me for hours, whether in his room, my room, or in the car.

I have a friend, who does not tolerate, from himself, nor anyone else, any kind of dishonesty.

I have a friend, who never wants people to notice him, unless he does, then you can’t help but notice him.

I have a friend, who’s devotion to his family is so deep, at times it’s costly to him. He unquestionably pays.

I have a friend who loves people, especially his nieces and nephew. He always remembers everyone’s name, where they are in life and if they need help.

I have a friend whose heart melts at the gaze of children and pets. In later years his cats and his mother have been the majority of his company, and he’s just fine.

I have a friend who is passionate about many things; family, friends, faith, and a variety sports.

I have a friend, whose vast intellect is unknown to most people who know him casually, he would see no reason to show it off, or hide it. He is to genuine for that.

I have a friend whose faith in God is simple, yet undeniable. He never wants to, his words; “over spiritualize nothing“. However, if you have experienced his kindness, or felt loved by the man, you have  experienced the love of Jesus through him.

I have a friend who has contended with his stupid body, every day; for 40 years. Sometimes he forgets himself and complains to me, only to stop himself, because he sees the brutality and suffering of others and says, “It’s not that bad.” He has for decades told me he will likely die young, he is at peace with that. He has also told me more recently, as his body was shutting down, he wants to make to at least 50. What do you know, 50 years and 11 days to be exact.

I have a friend, who never wants to bother anybody with his problems, but is the first one to show up to support you in yours.

I have a friend, whose generosity sometimes seems unwise at times. I know he struggles financially, but he is mortified at the mere thought of sharing his trouble with anyone, because,  “They have their own troubles, why would I want to bother em with mine.”

I have a friend, who has been with me through every major life event I can remember since my junior year in high school. There have been what seem like oceans of time when we would lose contact. When we reconnect, it’s like we had just talked yesterday. He has for me been like a North Star, or home; steady, bright, comfortable, genuine, supportive, always enjoyable, peaceful, and kind; although not always nice about it. (incidentally, he stands as the only person in my life who can call me a dumbass without pissing me off).

I have a true friend, I’m going to miss him like a na arm, until we meet again, I love you brother.

Though I did not know Brian well, my Dad used to play cards with him. Brian and my father became very fond of each other. Whenever I’d run into Brian, he’d always come up and shake my hand and ask how my father was doing. Then he’d say tell your father I said hi. I knew right from the start how sincere he was when he asked.

I always thought it was very gracious of him to take a minute to ask how a 71 year old man was and to tell him he said hello. Later on in life, I learned that was his character in making sure people were doing ok. I’ll always be grateful to him for always caring about how my father was doing.

I went to east 91st Christian church with Brian. We knew each other through the singles ministry. He was so funny and a total sweetheart! I didn’t get see him much after I got married, but every time we did spend time together there was never a dull moment. I am so sorry for the loss of him and his stepdad. I know that only God can bring peace and comfort during this time of great loss. 🙏

Brian was a warm heart and grew in faith at E91 and JRM.  I always admired him there. 

Brian and I were in show choir together in middle school and high school and remained friends for several years after high school. He helped through some difficult circumstances way back then.  We hadn't had much contact for many years except for high school reunions, but recently had started texting again. I'm so thankful that I had a chance to see him at his birthday celebration a couple of weeks ago. Brian was always such an incredible friend. Hoping you are having the time of your life up in Heaven....one day we will meet again! Love you, friend!

I had the pleasure of meeting Brian at Indiana State and he was a roommate of mine. I quickly learned that he was a funny guy and someone who was loyal to his friends and family. He was my best man at my wedding and someone special to my wife and I. As time and life often work, we lost touch over the years. I didn’t know he was having health issues and his passing as reminded me how fragile life is. I’m thankful for having known Brian and to have experienced firsthand what so many others have said about him. His smile was infectious, the way he cared for those important to him undisputed, and his life made a difference to so many people. Fly high, my friend- until we meet again.

Met Brian in 2014 when I started hanging out with Kevin again.   They were roomies.    

Brian was a little quirky but such a nice guy.    We became friends and played lots of euchre, talked basketball and he was my church buddy for a while at Grace church.

We have lost touch over the last few years but I will always have the good memories.

Rest In Peace my friend!   I will see u again.   Hope u see Jimmy and Gary then play some heavenly euchre.

I met Brian  at IMC a company we both worked at together. I noticed this shy skinny guy across the room so I started to bring him food.  And one day I invited him out for a drink at the local dive bar by our office and the rest is history. We started dating and Brian was one of the most kind, thoughtful, generous, fun loving, entertaining person I've ever known. Brian took me to Lake Melissa and that weekend just happened to be karaoke night.  Next thing I know this shy skinny guy, Brian and his brother Troy are up there belting out some karaoke song and that Shy Boy I knew at work came out of his shell😯😯I was so shocked and amazed! And from then on he always kept me laughing. He had the best sense of humor, could easily take a joke. He was an awesome host at all the parties he had. My heart has broken with your untimely passing. As Brian would say to me, "I look forward to seeing you again." Love you Brian

I’m so sorry for you loss. My thoughts are with you all. 

My condolences to the entire family ❤️