I am still missing Brenda, and it has been over a year since she left Vegas on June 18 to get treatment back in Oregon. I don't believe I will EVER forget her, but I am trying to find someone who will help me stop missing her. We definitely were NOT soulmates, but she was a lot of fun to live with.
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Remembering you on your birthday, Brenda. Miss you so much.
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For some reason, I was wondering where Brenda was because she always posts her trips between Nevada and the Oregon coast. And as I was scrolling down her Facebook page, I noticed the obituary and the tributes. I knew her from doing a meet up hike that we went on several years ago and she was super fast up the hills. I always admired her skiing and her adventurous spirit. My Condolences to her family.!!!
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Brenda wrote and published quite a number of poems in middle and high school. Brenda's mother rediscovered newspaper clippings of some of them recently, and so we read this one, written sometime in the late 80's, at her Celebration of Life gathering this past Saturday, 9/23/2023.
Yesterday
Seems like years just slip away
And I’m tired of being sad
Memories are good for awhile
But you can’t regain what you once had
Time is so different now
Retrospectively I smile
Happiness is but a root of life
Even for awhile
Destiny has taken hold
And cannot steer me from my way
Because today is ours to live
And in the present we must stay
Although the past is buried now
Those dreams will not decay
I relinquish but do not regret
The promises of yesterday
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David and I just wanted to send our love to everyone today. We are out of town or we'd be there to celebrate Brenda with you all. MAD LOVE
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2018, The Pumpkin Patch on Sauvie Island, Portland's original, Northwest Gillihan Road, Portland, OR, USA
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One more story! Brenda came on our first rafting retreat down the Deschutes River. What was supposed to be a 100 degree day turned out to be 60 and raining. The Deschutes is FREEZING. Brenda, at 0% body fat was FREEZING. We had to put her in a truck at our lunch spot and turn the heater all the way up to dethaw her. She was such a trooper though! I added a picture from this trip. This is us after on the river, camping and a lot warmer!
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2015, Tulum, Quintana Roo, Mexico
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2015, Tulum, Quintana Roo, Mexico
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2015, Tulum, Quintana Roo, Mexico
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Stoller Family Estate, Northeast McDougall Road, Dayton, OR, USA
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2015, Tulum, Quintana Roo, Mexico
Yo!Cation Retreat Crew with Ganesha
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Deschutes River, Oregon, USA
River Rafting/Yoga Retreat
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Brenda was one of the strongest people I ever met, physically and otherwise! She regularly attended my Bootcamp class. One day we had a forearm plank competition. We had to stop her at 10 minutes because she hadn't yet broken a sweat! She had 5+ minutes on all of us and no signs of stopping. Amazing mental fortitude to take on some of life's greatest challenges with a smile on her face. What a legend!
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Leroy and Claire, please know you are in our prayers during this difficult time. May you feel God’s loving arms around you.
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2022, Mohnton, PA
Trip back home
— with
Brenda and her Mom
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2022, Silver Nugget Casino North, North Las Vegas, NV
Comedy show first Saturday of the month. Brenda tolerated my stand up because she loved me
— with
Michael "Budsy" Davis
and Brenda Louise Kromm
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