''Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.''- Proverbs 31:30.
'Mums' as I would fondly call you, perhaps because of your willingness to adopt so many people as your own child, or maybe it's the way you gather the downtrodden to yourself just like a hen with its chicks.
And let's not also forget your ever so encompassing love, care, hugs, kisses and prayers😊🙌🏾🙏🏽!! Indeed you were Mums to me 'Extraordinaire'!!! You were such a sound, grounded, spiritual and loving mother😊🙏🏾!!
'Mums' you weren't only a good mother to me, you were also my mentor. You loved me and my family unconditionally, you cared for me, my wife Ebere and our kids so much and at all times.
You exemplified a woman of grace and mercy, you strived to cultivate godly character traits such as humility, wisdom, faith, kindness, prayer, godly fear and discipline😊🙏🏾!!
You were always giving of yourself to me and others, indeed you were always about the progress of all your children(spiritual and biological). Mums you gave and displayed nurture, godly direction, instruction and loads of encouragement.
So much amazement at how you did all this and mostly denied even your own needs and catered for the needs of others☺️🙌🏾🙏🏾!!
There were so many levels about you that I wouldn't be able to exhaust them. Like you were solidly grounded in the word of God. You always spoke the truth within your heart in love. You always gave encouragement, nurture, godly counsel and instruction! You were a woman who loved to worship the Lord with songs, hymns and prayer🙏🏾
I could go on but let me recount the time when I met you. It was I believe in 1998, I had walked into the church fellowship you belonged to on a Sunday. One week prior to that i had rededicated my life to Jesus Christ and was looking for a place to fellowship.
On recommendation I walked into your place of fellowship then. And shortly after during the 'meet and greet' session at the church, I stood up and introduced myself.
Suddenly without hesitation you also stood up and raised your hand to say that you would be willing and pleased to adopt me as one of your spiritual children.
This was because I was new to the fellowship, I had no friends and knew no one else!! I was so overwhelmed, grateful and joyful that you extended such Godly love and affection😊🙌🏾🙏🏾!!
Fast forward to 2024, 26 years later, you have never abandoned me, nor my wife and our children whom you also adopted😊🙏🏾!!
So with all that said 'Mums'.....I just want to really say that I'm really going to miss you immensely....😭😭😭.
Yes I know that you're in a much better place with the Lord, but it still doesn't take away from the fact that you not being here any longer is very painful😟! Your impact in my life and that of my family was so life-changing🙌🏾🙏🏾!!
I love you so much Mums, sleep well until we meet again in heaven🙏🏾!!! Shalom, Shalom, Shalom.