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Betty Lou Ericson

Southport, NC

November 30, 1940 - December 4, 2020

Nov 30, 1940 - Dec 4, 2020

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Vicky Caudill

2022, Southport, NC, USA

Betty, I miss you every day but I get to see your smiling face every day also. There’s a photo on my tv screen saver of us on one of our many girls night outings. I have soooo many great memories of you! I miss you, my friend, but I know you and Roger and Katie are together, well, and blessed!

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Irene Reynolds

Around 8 or 9 years ago Betty decided to sign up for a dating sight. She asked me to help her and to take a picture to post. So, one afternoon she came by for the photo op. We laughed so hard having her pose and then deciding on which photo to use. I don't think she ever went through posting, but we had some laughs working on it.

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Becky Felton

Honduras

I got to know Betty when we spent time together on a mission trip to Honduras with a group from Trinity United Methodist Church. She was always a joy to be with and will be missed. I remember her telling stories of working with the Salvation Army and I made a contribution to that organization in her memory. Becky Felton

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Ann Marie Frazier

Betty will be missed greatly at The Christmas House. It was a business relationship that grew into a wonderful friendship. We’ve shared many laughs, aches and pains, and a few tears. Even in the worst of pain she found a way to smile and have fun. Always with a positive attitude, and love and support from her dear friends in Southport. Fly high Betty, we will think of you often with animals, hummingbirds, Betty Boop, and every time we see a Salvation Army stand. We love you! Thank you for your friendship.

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Irene Reynolds

I met Betty nearly ten years ago when my husband and I moved to Norseman Loop in Southport. Our first encounter was while she was walking her beloved dog, Katie. My husband is a dog lover and immediately purchased treats for Katie. So, on Betty's frequent strolls around the Loop, Katie knew to come to our front door for her goodies. During these time we spoke frequently and learned a great deal about her family and her business. Since I was running our neighborhood book club, Betty joined and we all enjoyed her company and her contributions during our monthly meetings. Even after she moved away, she still tried to get to the meetings as often as possible. While she was still living on Norseman Loop, I had my first and second Grandchild. She showered us with cute toys from her business that my Grandchildren still have to this day. Betty was never afraid to speak her mind; sometimes it was quite hilarious. But, we appreciated that about her. I remember when she was taking her trip to Ireland. Oh was she ever so excited. We heard many tales of her adventure. We were so happy for her that she got to go. We were grateful that she was able to call upon us when in need of a computer or printer repair ; as well as prior and after she had to go to rehab. She was comfortable to call us when in need. It seemed that so many of us in the community wanted to help because she was such a special lady. She was humorous, kind, loving and a fun spirit. To her family I know that you must miss her so, but you can be comforted by how much she loved you all.

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Cynthia Johnson

Thank you Irene. Mom spoke of you often with great appreciation and friendship. Thank you for all you did... Read more Thank you Irene. Mom spoke of you often with great appreciation and friendship. Thank you for all you did for her. 🙏🏼 Thank you Irene. Mom spoke of you often with great... Read more

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Diana Bulich

So sorry for your loss! She was one feisty lady! I truly enjoyed being her nurse during her time with us in Southport. My grandson loved the stuffed animals she gave me for him! She was very special.❤

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Cynthia Johnson

Hi Diana - thank you for taking the time to share. Feisty she was. I know that you provided great care ... Read more Hi Diana - thank you for taking the time to share. Feisty she was. I know that you provided great care and we are so appreciative... Read more Hi Diana - thank you for taking the time to share. ... Read more

Kate Ericson

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Cynthia Johnson

I am remembering my mom today and thinking of the gifts she passed on to me over the years.

Two things that have paid off extremely well in my life – a spirit of creativity and a spirit of strength. Both I got from mom.

When I was little, I was encouraged to bake, paint, play music, act, or to simply create. It did not matter if I was creating an inedible green m&m cake, painting the swing set or putting on a show in the garage with my sister, Bev. Mom was always cheering me on.

She called me the “maker and the doer” because I was constantly creating, making and doing.

Back in my high school and college theater years, mom never missed a single performance. She took great pride in my creativity and, as such, encouraged me to continue to create, to make and do.

And that gift of creativity has been a part of my entire life, until this day and beyond.

I also got her determination, independence and strength. I have been through a little bit in my life (who among us has not). But I have never given up, I have never thrown in the towel, I just kept pressing on. And I got this from mom.

Two powerful and meaningful gifts that have carried me through a lifetime and will sustain me as my journey continues.

Trying to make things more beautiful and to do so with a strong spirit and a strong faith – I got that from mom and I am so thankful to her for these precious gifts.

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Kate Ericson

Cindy this is beautiful in and evident in the way you live your life. Thank you for sharing this spirit of... Read more Cindy this is beautiful in and evident in the way you live your life. Thank you for sharing this spirit of creativity and strength... Read more Cindy this is beautiful in and evident in the way you... Read more

Cynthia Johnson

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Alvera Ericson McGuirk

I remember Betty best when she and I were teenagers together and I was trying to pack a suitcase. (She was a lot os fun, and I liked having a "sister" around. (I had 2 brothers, and Rodger was my big brother). My big brother Rodger was so in love with her, and she with him....in that way, they kind of reminded me of our mom and dad. With them gone, the world has less love in it.

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Cynthia Johnson

Auntie I’d love to know what you two were up to packing that suitcase. But you are right - they were a ... Read more Auntie I’d love to know what you two were up to packing that suitcase. But you are right - they were a shining example of love.... Read more Auntie I’d love to know what you two were up to packing... Read more

Albert Ericson

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Albert Ericson

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Some photos of Betty from my old photo album.

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Cynthia Johnson

I love both - but the sunglasses and the sass. That’s my mom. Thanks uncle - I don’t think I’ve seen those... Read more I love both - but the sunglasses and the sass. That’s my mom. Thanks uncle - I don’t think I’ve seen those before. 💕 I love both - but the sunglasses and the sass. That’s... Read more

Kate Ericson

this photo captures Betty's spirit so fully! maybe my favorite that I've ever seen! this photo captures Betty's spirit so fully! maybe my favorite that I've ever seen! this photo captures Betty's spirit so fully! maybe ... Read more

Kate Ericson

Betty and Eric

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Rodger and Betty with lora

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Albert Ericson

I love that photo!!! I love seeing Betty laughing like that! I love that photo!!! I love seeing Betty laughing like that! I love that photo!!! I love seeing Betty laughing like... Read more

Cynthia Johnson

So beautiful. Thanks so much for posting! So beautiful. Thanks so much for posting! So beautiful. Thanks so much for posting!

Diane Kauffman

My sister, Barbara, Rodger, Alvera and I grew up together being cared for by Rodger, Alvera and Albert's mother, Ruth. Since Rodger was a bit older, he would often take the initiative to entertain all the girl cousins in their backyard. He would put on Circus shows and was the Ring Master, entertainer and performer all in one. We just adored our cousin and all the laughs we had because of him. Barbara and I only met Betty a few times, but it was very apparent that Rodger considered Betty his loving partner and soulmate. I am so very sorry for your loss and hope that your cherished memories of times with your parents bring you comfort as you know there is quite a reunion in Heaven with Rodger and Jesus!
All my love,
Cousin Diane Adamson Kauffman

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Cynthia Johnson

Cousin Diane thank you so much for the lovely memories. Dad was always the Ringmaster and entertainer. ... Read more Cousin Diane thank you so much for the lovely memories. Dad was always the Ringmaster and entertainer. And the love of mom’s... Read more Cousin Diane thank you so much for the lovely memories.... Read more

Kate Ericson

Betty joyfully welcomed me into her family many years ago, and generously shared life with me and our children. It was always a high priority for Betty to stay relevant in our lives, overcoming barriers of geographical distance. She always made it clear that we were an important part of her life. Betty’s legacy continues to live strong through the lessons we all saw in her life. Lessons like amazing hard work, extreme generosity, and the importance of laughter and joy and friends and loved ones. We will continue to carry this legacy, passing it on in our own ways. Thank you for sharing these beautiful memories and celebration of her impact on our lives.

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Cynthia Johnson

Kate - my heart goes out to you and your family. I know we are all suffering a loss in our own way. But... Read more Kate - my heart goes out to you and your family. I know we are all suffering a loss in our own way. But mom loved you so. And... Read more Kate - my heart goes out to you and your family. I... Read more

Angela Hilburger

Betty was such a special lady. We met when she was walking her dog Katie. Over the next few years my husband and I enjoyed visiting with Betty, sharing meals together, meeting at the marina, and always walking Coco and our dog, Jake. Even though she had many set backs she was always so positive and full of life. She was so proud of her children and grandchildren and spoke of them often. She had a tremendous support system through Trinity Methodist Church and was always grateful for her friends. Her love for her late husband was such an inspiration. I will hold the fond memories of Betty close to my heart and keep her family in my prayers.

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Cynthia Johnson

Hi Angie. Thanks so much for sharing. I know how much you meant to mom. And we are so grateful for the... Read more Hi Angie. Thanks so much for sharing. I know how much you meant to mom. And we are so grateful for the friendship you shared.... Read more Hi Angie. Thanks so much for sharing. I know how ... Read more

Nichole StCyr

I want to start by saying I am so grateful I got to see and spend a few hours by her side last Thursday! I shed a lot of tears over the news of her health declining last week but am so happy she is at peace now and pain free. I met Betty last April when she popped her head in our Market near the waterfront in Southport! She said "do you mind if I sit on your bench for a rest!?" We weren't open yet and I was inside painting. I said of course you can and went out to sit with her and Coco! This woman reminded me of my late memere instantly! I immediately felt a connection with her. Come to find out she had left some info & samples for me at our other store . I wasn't there that day and she was surprised when I said my name and that I was one of the owners. She then told about leaving the samples for me to look at just weeks before. We went inside for a tour of the :under construction Market" and she told me more about the pocket knives she sold and brands that her daughter Beverly did as well. My husband thought I was nuts spending that much on a display full of pocket knives, I told him no way would this little "older" sweet lady steer me wrong!! She, and me, for believing in her, sure did prove him wrong! We have reorder those knives quite a bit since opening our doors last May! She knew her stuff! Her friend Cathy came with her to help set up the display days before we opened and Betty would come and do the inventory without me ever asking and when I saw her coming I would help carry her chair in & always offer her a drink and some homemade ice cream! When finished I would walk her out and she always said "no no I can get my chair or I don't need to use my cane" but I of course would take her chair and she would loop her arm through mine to hold on. Outside once we put her chair in her car she would always open her trunk if I mentioned any word of samples for some kids I always liked to give to, along with my grandson Kai who is almost 3. She always said take as many as you like for anyone. A heart as big as my memeres! I want to let her children know (I only know Bev) how special she was to me. Seeing her made my day. I truly believe she and my memere will always be looking down on me, they were 2 of a kind and such God loving good ladies. I only wish I had known her longer. My sincere condolences go out to her family! ❤ Nichole

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Cynthia Johnson

Hi Nichole. I know the story of the bench and your kindness from mom sharing the story with me. Thank you... Read more Hi Nichole. I know the story of the bench and your kindness from mom sharing the story with me. Thank you for your kindness ... Read more Hi Nichole. I know the story of the bench and your... Read more

Albert Ericson

1975

Betty, Rodger and baby Jay

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Cynthia Johnson

Love this photo! Captures the fun adventures dad would share with mom and us kids. Thank you Uncle! Love this photo! Captures the fun adventures dad would share with mom and us kids. Thank you Uncle! Love this photo! Captures the fun adventures dad would... Read more

Albert Ericson

Dear sister-in-law, I will miss you so much! Although we haven't stayed close in touch over the years recently, I will always remember the great times when we came to visit in El Paso, St. Louis and Indianapolis when I was young. And the family get togethers when you, Rodger and the girls (Jay wasn't born yet) came up to visit my parents in Chicago. I remember the books we would share reading, and the fun places you and Rodger took us when we were visiting. I wish you peace, and I am comforted to know that you are with my brother whom you loved so dearly. All my love, your brother-in-law Albert

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Cynthia Johnson

Lovely memories. Thank you for sharing Uncle. 💕🙏🏼💕 Lovely memories. Thank you for sharing Uncle. 💕🙏🏼💕 Lovely memories. Thank you for sharing Uncle. 💕🙏🏼💕... Read more

Linda Dooley

I met Betty shortly after Rodger died and was inspired by her faith that God would always meet her needs. She approached life - its ups and downs- with a sense of humor, determination, and the desire to be productive at work. She never shied away from sharing her opinion. For example, in our Sunday school class at Trinity, she was often encouraging us to put more pep in our singing...we just "dragged", she said! Throughout the many physical challenges that Betty had in recent years, she knew that her family, friends, and neighbors were all banding together to supply the support she needed. God did indeed meet all of her needs, and we're all the better for having enjoyed the example and friendship of this dear woman.
Linda Dooley

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Cynthia Johnson

Beautiful remembrance of mom. Thank you Linda. Beautiful remembrance of mom. Thank you Linda. Beautiful remembrance of mom. Thank you Linda.

Barbara Cather

2018, Southport NC

I met Betty at a women's retreat through church. She had to leave early because she wasn't feeling well. That night I started wondering about her well being, then worrying, then losing sleep! I thought, I barely know her -- of course one of her friends will be looking in on her! By morning I was thinking of all the worst possible scenarios. I was SO relieved when she answered the door! And even happier when she sent me on a "mission" for pedialyte or some such thing. That was the beginning of a treasured friendship.

The things I admired and respected about Betty:
1) She never hesitated to give an honest answer about how she was doing -- how she felt -- when things weren't going so well. Instead of saying "I'm fine," she would tell you the truth.
2) I never knew someone who worked as hard as she did to keep her own spirits up. In spite of losing Rodger and having health issues, she always kept reminders in front of herself to stay positive. She had cute little figurines and sayings all around the house -- in the kitchen it was "Bee Happy," on the bathroom mirror, "Good Morning Sunshine!"
3) I loved her sense of humor! I would bring her the wrong brand of orange soda and she would give me a tongue lashing until we were both giggling.

Betty was a shining light, a lovely inspiration. I thank God that he let me share a few bits of her life.

Barbara Cather

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Cynthia Johnson

Thank you Barbara for taking the time to share and for your love and friendship to our mom. Thank you Barbara for taking the time to share and for your love and friendship to our mom. Thank you Barbara for taking the time to share and ... Read more

William Wallace

From the USASOC Safety Office, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your loss. Our love goes out to you.

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Cynthia Johnson

Thank you William for your support. Thank you William for your support. Thank you William for your support.

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