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Bette Fetter

Elgin
April 11, 1954 - December 4, 2025
Apr 11, 1954 - Dec 4, 2025
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The entire Brill gang has been blessed by Bette and family's energy and creativity in the hours spent with you all through school and  the Children's Theatre of Elgin and Fox Valley Youth Theatre Company. To have shared this part of our lives with you all has been a blessing that remains with us forever. To Bill and family, we are so sorry for the loss you experience. Thank you for sharing this time of celebrating Bette's life.

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Will never forget how she took time out of her many obligations to check-in on our son and on us when we were dealing with difficult health situations and surgical procedures. Blessed to have known her as a friend and leader. 
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