My cousin Bernie was one of a kind.In my younger years I always marveled at how handsome he was,and how he often had a beautiful woman at his side. Growing up whenever our families got together,Bernie was guaranteed to find me,strike up a conversation,and ask about my life  I distinctly remember fall of 1979,I had just gotten out of the navy..I was visiting with Margie Patti at aunt Jane's home.bernie came in and after a big hug and his patented Hollywood smile,he fixed me a drink I'd never had before,a stinger!!I don't drink anymore,but over the years around Christmas time I'd order a stinger and toast to Bernie.

In the 90s.bernie was living in highland township,and I worked in that township for almost 8years(oakland County sheriff)

And in those years Bernie and I talked a lot about life,and families. We found time to do an occasional lunch,and every once in a while we woukd gokf together at highland hills,after my workday.

I loved Bernie like a big brother..and I made a point of phoning him often.just to see how life was treating him..I especially made a point of talking to him at holidays, and even though my door was always open to him,it was a rarity when he blessed our home with his presence.

He was an important part of my life,and I miss him and our conversations He was and is truly loved.. I am so happy I was able to visit him and say one ladt goodbye to him in his final days I wish he'd gifted me his beautiful hair before he left to join his other famiky members in heaven.

RIP Bernie...❤️

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