It is with heavy hearts we announce the passing of Anthony "Alayna" Haessly on September 25, 2023. Born December 30, 1992, Anthony was a beacon of love, light, wisdom, and a touch of goofiness. They were known for their uncensored honesty, which only added to their distinctive charm.

Also known as Alayna, Anthony chose their name, identity, and pronouns with the same conviction and pride with which they faced the world. They loved everyone and accepted each person in their life with open arms and a warm heart. Their unyielding belief in the inherent worth and unique value of every individual is their legacy, one of acceptance, love, and respect.

Alayna possessed a remarkable intellect, a keen knack for solving puzzles and problems. This was best exemplified in her extraordinary feat of building a computer from scratch with their best friend Errin- a testament to their technical prowess and enduring determination. They also generously shared their knowledge, tutoring their sisters in math and always imparting their wisdom.

The lessons Anthony left behind were unique and spirited, just like them. They playfully advised to 'stay out of trouble, or don't get caught'. It was one of many ways Anthony reframed life's trials, turning them into lessons and laughter.

Family played a significant role in Anthony's life. They cherished the bingo nights with their grandparents, Liz and Avery. The excitement and anticipation, the quiet concentration, and the joyful victory shouts are memories the family will treasure forever. Elsewhere, they enthusiastically partook in Milwaukee Brewers games with their Uncle Rich, a shared passion that deepened their bond.

Anthony's week-long visits with their mother and sisters were a time of connection, care, and cherished moments. Their love for their family was profound, and they left an indelible mark on the lives of those dearest to them.

Their passing is a profound loss to those who had the privilege of knowing them. Anthony "Alayna" will forever be remembered for their loving nature, their radiant spirit, their wisdom, and their enduring legacy of acceptance and love. The world is a lesser place without them, but they will always live on in the hearts of those who loved them.

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