Not exactly a condolence, but this spans most of my entire life so I cant really put this as a story, so. I honestly miss him very much to this day. When me and my sister were younger he was like a third parent to us. Whenever we asked for something like a toy or a game, he would provide for us, if my parents needed money for bills when times were iffy, he would lend a few helping hands, occasionally somehow even more! Currently I am 14 and will be turning 15 later this year, and to this day we have a photo of Pappau on our kitchen table, and i sometimes just end up staring at it thinking of what has happened, and what could have happened, so I would say that he succeeded in his goals of helping raise a few good children.