First met Drew nearly thirty years ago, back in our university days when we were both in our twenties. Those early years were full of silly laughter and the kind of lighthearted jokes that only young friends share. Even then, Drew was already incredibly smart, and he was always so charming with his guitar, singing the songs he composed himself. He was gentle, well liked, and naturally drew people in.
As life brought us back to Hong Kong, our friendship grew even deeper. With Chilli, also my dear friend since university, our families became closely connected. I still remember so clearly when Paxton was a newborn and I was completely overwhelmed. I turned to Chilli and Drew, and they responded without hesitation. They came over, talked me through everything and even helped set up an IP camera at home to calm my anxious new‑mum mind. Their warmth is something I will always be grateful for.
We shared many wonderful memories as our families bonded and travelled together. On ski trips, Drew always helped keep an eye on Paxton on the slopes. At meals, he would pass extra food to me, half amused, half encouraging, joking about how much I could eat. During karaoke, I will always remember him singing his favourite Ah Lam 林子祥 and Leon Lai songs with so much enjoyment. And we had so much fun doing Just Dance together; it was genuinely funny seeing how surprisingly well Drew could dance. Also when he played the guitar and we sang along, it felt like going right back to our carefree university days.
I will also always remember Drew’s unique sense of humour. One memory that still makes me smile is how he rated restaurants not by their food, but by how strong the Wi‑Fi was. That was so typically him—practical, amusing, and quietly clever in his own way.
Although Drew is now in the good hands of God, the bonds we built over so many years through youth, adulthood, and family will continue on.
Don’t worry—we will take good care of Chilli, even though she has already been incredibly strong throughout (your superwoman, beloved wife).
Until then, Drew, we will meet again, my dear friend. Rest in peace.