To my dear friend Drew,

A guitarist with magic in your fingers, a tech wizard with a childlike grin. You were generous without keeping score, funny without ever being unkind, and caring in all the small, quiet ways that mattered most, with a mischievous streak that lit up every room and every half‑baked scheme we whipped up.

In the hardest times, you were brave, facing adversity with quiet strength while making sure Chilli and your two boys were always loved, protected, and cared for.

I’ll always treasure the memories we shared, Japan with late‑night laughs, the adventures that went slightly off‑script and that ridiculous game of tennis in the rain where we were soaked, slipping, and laughing like kids.

The world feels quieter without your music, but in every riff, every shared joke, every rainy‑day memory, every talk about cars and gadgets, and in the family you guarded so fiercely, you’re still here with us.

Until we meet again.

James, Mandy & Alex

I was deeply saddened to hear about Andrew’s  passing.

 He was not only a wonderful mentor but also such a kind and supportive manager. I learned so much from him and I will always be grateful for his guidance and encouragement.

My heartfelt condolences to his family during this incredibly difficult time.

Dear Andrew,

Being there with you on your final journey reflects the bond we formed since we met in 2005 at PCCW Solutions. Supporting your wedding party and witnessing the special moments in your life brought me immense joy. Your smile has always brightened our lives and will continue to resonate in our hearts.

As I hold onto our cherished memories, it brings me peace to know we will meet again in heaven. Until then, your spirit will forever inspire us all.

With all my love,

Kylie❤️ 

As Andrew’s 哥哥 (older brother), it has been a true privilege and great pleasure spending most of our lives together.

Ever since I have a conscious mind, Andrew has always been there as my companion. There have been infinite good memories with Andrew over the past 48 years. During most of our childhood years, we shared the same bedroom where I slept in the top bunk bed and Andrew slept in the bottom. We kept each other in good company and spent many nights pretending to be asleep but actually having fun with pillow fights and “hand hide-and-seek” games under our blankets. School holidays were even more fun as we could enjoy wargames by toppling dining chairs and other furniture all over our home to create “bunkers”. We spent our very first times on ski slopes together, learning how to ski (and fall). With the PC era, our favorite games were Formula 1 Grand Prix (1991) and multiplayer Command & Conquer (1995), playing together using two computers connected with a co-axial LAN cable.

Andrew has always been gentle and kind-hearted, and carried an amazingly cheerful aura around him at all times. This is why he developed so many lifelong friendships over the years, as witnessed at today’s funeral, where so many friends and former colleagues gathered. One of his former colleagues came up to me after the funeral and told me how Andrew’s kindness and actions have positively transformed his life over the past 16 years. As mentioned during Dean Samson’s Homily, every one of us will know how Andrew has made our world brighter, and with his passing, that light will not disappear but evolve into an everlasting memory, legacy and love.

After having been diagnosed with brain tumor, Andrew continued to have a positive and resilient mindset despite his two major surgeries, multiple sessions of radiation therapy and chemotherapy. Andrew has never complained during his battle against illness and for this we must thank Chilli for her unlimited tender loving care. Andrew demonstrated great courage in facing his gradual decline in health condition until the very end.

On behalf of our family, I would like to sincerely thank all of Andrew’s friends in helping with the funeral arrangements and supporting our family over the past few weeks. I also extend my deepest gratitude to The Very Revd Samson Fan, Ms Jen Tsang and Ms Aggie Pang for helping with the funeral arrangements, and The Revd Darren Pollock and Ms Cherie Cheung for their prompt help with various logistics.

Andrew, thank you so much for every single moment we have spent together, and for all the joy that you have bought us. May you rest peacefully with our heavenly Father. We shall meet again.

The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.

(Numbers 6:24-26 WSV)

I’m deeply saddened by the loss. Even though I only got to know Andrew in recent years, he quickly became someone I genuinely enjoyed spending time with. Our shared love for motorsport, the car shows, the test drives, and all the laughs in between made every moment memorable. He was smart, witty, and kind at heart—impatient at times, sure, but in a way that made him even more fun to be around once you clicked with him.

My heart goes out to his family. I hope J1J2 will grow up remembering him as the incredible role model he was, and that they carry forward his passion, humor, and strength. And to Chilli—who is such a close friend to my family—I hope she finds comfort in knowing she is surrounded by people who love her deeply and will stand by her through every step ahead.

I truly believe he is now in a place filled with peace and love, watching over and blessing his family. His presence will be missed, but his spirit will stay with all of us who were lucky enough to know him.

Growing up, my uncle Andrew 二叔 was an ever-cheerful presence, and I always enjoyed seeing 二叔at our Saturday family dinners. I’m glad we got to share an interest in cars - since I was a little boy I’d always been fascinated by his model car collection. I’ll also cherish that in Dec 2018, 二叔 gave me my first ever guitar lesson. The last few years, playing guitar has been so valuable in allowing me to connect with music and understand how I acquire skill; I’m glad that 二叔 was at the start of this journey. I will think of 二叔 every time I watch Top Gear’s review of the Enzo Ferrari, or every time I listen to Neon by John Mayer, among some of the cool things he introduced to me in my childhood.

二叔, though you are no longer with us, your warm and happy energy lives on in our hearts, and we are lucky to remember you through all the wonderful ways you have touched our lives.

Thank you Andrew, being that brilliant friend we all embraced.

From the young days in UNSW to our professional lives, we shared many great memories from the various F1 trips, ski trips, parties, weddings to even the most mundane lunches at our company cafeteria.

There were laughter and tears but also much wisdom learnt along the way.

Andrew has always been the trusted friend I can confide and receive generous support.

I am eternally grateful and blessed for our friendship.

Every moment we shared in each space time is preserved with us to carry forward.

You are taken too early from us but we are learning to accept the fact you are finally free.

The beacon may be gone but not forgotten.

See you later. 

I was heartbroken when I heard the news of Andrew's passing.

Never saw Andrew without a smile.

 My prayers are with the family. May his soul rest in peace.

It’s hard to put into words the shock of losing Andrew so suddenly. 

He carried a quiet, infectious joy — that unmistakable half-smile that made you laugh before either of you even spoke. It was like his spirit refused to be dimmed. I’ll always remember him that way — full of light, humour, and calm strength. Wishing your family comfort and peace in the days ahead.

不知不覺和阿drew相識十幾年，佢係一個面上時刻充滿笑容的謙謙君子，亦都係個樂觀勇敢面對病魔的戰士。每次聚會，佢都讓我認識到新的知識，由音樂，Nano Sound,甚至網上購物，每次阿drew都係眼中帶着熱誠來同我們一一介紹。

每一次相聚的畫面深刻留在我們每個人的腦海，不會忘懷。將來的邊爐團拜，我哋都會繼續留一席位給你！

安息！

I was shocked and saddened to hear about the loss of Andrew.

My deepest sympathy to the Lai families and especially Grace and Daniel.

It's heartbreaking to hear about Andrew's passing. We hadn’t crossed paths in a long time, yet the memories of us making music together at uni still feel so close. Those moments will stay with me forever. Andrew will be sadly missed, and my sincere condolences go to Chilli and the kids, 保重同加油.

Dominic

While most people close to Andrew calls him Drew, but for my sister - Michelle and I, we have our own special way of calling him. To us he is the beloved, one and only - 肥哥哥 (i.e. chubby older brother). As our Dads are brothers, we carry a special kind of bond and cousin connection, one that is different from friendship, yet unique in its own way.

From my earliest childhood memories, I have always adore (and still do) both of my 堂哥s (i.e. first cousins). I remember as a little girl, playing toys and games with them at our respective homes, or our Grandparents’ home. They also helped me with homework, so we could finish quickly and dive into our games. 肥哥哥, the fun-loving one, was my perfect accomplice. Together we shared endless fun antics and playful mischief.

After he moved to Australia, in the early internet days when he was in uni, we stayed connected through emails filled with random trivials. Later, when he returned to Hong Kong, I had gone to study in the UK. I fondly remembers he visited the UK, where we had a weekend trip in London. Me being my usual boring self, was only able to think of the most touristy things to do (e.g. Museums, Hyde Park etc.), he never once complained and simply enjoyed every moment. One memory from that weekend stands out vividly: an Autumn Sunday evening where we sat near the Queen Victoria Memorial, gazing at the illuminated night view of Buckingham Palace.

Music was always one of 肥哥哥’s great passions. He often invited me to watch his FnD group performances, and it was through those which I came across Chilli. Seeing him find such genuine happiness in marrying the love of his life, and welcoming Chilli into our Lai family, filled me with real joy. They were the perfect complement to each other: both warm, relaxed, down-to-earth, good-natured, and deeply kind-hearted.

Then came their own loving family, with the arrival of Joses and Jasper. I was able to spend much time playing with Joses when he was young, and in many ways it felt like an extension of the carefree fun I once shared with his Dad. Some of our most memorable outings included family trip to Hong Kong Disneyland with 四叔 & 四嬸 (i.e. his parents), and enjoying buffet together with my own parents - his 三伯 & 三娘 at Disney’s Explorers Lodge.

It is a pity that post-COVID pandemic our respective lives shifted towards different directions; he embarked on a courageous health battle, and me focusing on my Dad’s wellbeing. Yet, we did exchange messages in the midst of all these - small notes that, in my hopeful heart, wished might lift his spirits a little. Over time, our conversations deepened, turning to more serious and meaningful topics, such as our shared Christian faith.

2025 marked an undeniable turning point for us. Still, I will always treasure the occasion when our extended Lai family gathered for my Dad’s birthday celebration. I am so glad we had that moment together, yet it saddens me when I realise it was the final gathering of the Lai clan with 肥哥哥 present.

I still find it somewhat hard to process that 肥哥哥 is no longer with us — taken far too young, far too soon. However, in the hope we have through Christ, I know he is now safe in His presence, free from all pain. I also find quiet comfort in knowing God is carrying 四叔、四嬸, Chilli, Joses, Jasper and us all gently through this grief.

I shall hold my happy memories and the unique bond with 肥哥哥 close to my heart forever. I will always remember him as kind, lighthearted and beautifully simple in the best possible way. His smile, his playful spirit, and the warmth he brought to every room will stay with me always.