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Andy was my best  friend. We met because we both really enjoyed Steve Kimock's music, and then realized we  lived just a couple of miles from  each other. We were both at the same Zero show in College Park, MD  in 1997 where I think he and Pam first met. We had lots of fun going to lots ofconcerts together, all over the country.  We would fly to SF, Arkansas,  Chicago, and drive to NYC and upstate New York to see Kimock play guitar. Andy, I miss you so much!! I think about you all the time!

andy and i were born 2 days apart in the same gwu hospital in dc, on the same floor. our moms lived a few doors away from each other in silver spring, md. 

he is still with me; every couple of months he's in my dreams.  when we were born, i was a couple of weeks late, andy was a couple of weeks early.  he snuck into life early, two days older than me.  and he snuck out *way* too early. :<(

GIVF- the very beginning !
1985, GIVF Fertility, Williams Drive, Fairfax, VA, USA
GIVF- the very beginning ! — with me (Beverly Joyce), Janet Hanser, Laurel Patton and Andy Dorfmann
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I'm a science teacher now, Andy, and every time I try something new in class I say, "What would happen if...." and then I laugh and think of you.  Thanks for being a great teacher to me!
I can't believe it's been two years! :(  Even though I hadn't seen you in person in a long time, Andy, I think of you often.  Every time I see a BMW sports car--you took me for a ride in your new one back then.  Every time someone asks me a genetics question---even though I haven't been in the lab in 20 years, I still remember everything l learned there.  Every time I hear a good Dead jam...jeez, that's almost every day.  You were probably the best boss I ever had, you and Pattye, and I always remember those days with a chuckle.  We laughed often.  I hope you are at peace, and I wish peace and love to your family.  You are not forgotten <3
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Andy, you were born two days before me, back in 1956. My mom was mad at your mom because it was a hot spring, and she was miserable, and you were two weeks early, and I was a few weeks late! She just didn't think it fair that your mom would give birth before her!

I'm certainly missing you today, and thoughts of you will always be with me. I'm glad for dreams, though, as you have been with me on quite a few occasions when I sleep, since last December. It's nice, even though I wake up and realize that's the only time I will get to see you.

You are missed by me and by many many others...
I've learned so much from Andy in the short 3 and a half years that we knew each other. I was fortunate enough to spend more time with Andy in the last year and a half, working on projects, having random conversations, and learning about Scotch. I will miss Andy's movie references, the smile and excitement in his voice, and his very active body language. Andy was an amazing person who I am very fortunate to have known.
12/15/2019
Dearest friends,
Bernie and I can not begin to convey our deepest sympathy to all of you for the loss of our friend your Husband, Father and Brother.
I remember the first time I met Andy. He was a larger than life character. I loved him right away. A person who was comfortable in his own skin and deeply grounded. I knew I could trust him from the start. He was honest and open and spoke from the heart.
Andy was also incredibly smart and funny and had a gift for sarcasm. I remember we talked about how Pam and Andy met and of course it had to be about music. Andy was (at least in my opinion a virtual musical encyclopedia) we could spend hours talking about music. Andy during our many gatherings was happy to share his favorites with us. We would listen to music throughout the evening sometimes until dawn. We would have the most wonderful midnight madness talks and while we were at it maybe save the world a little, giggles.
Andy was a truly devoted husband and family man. One of his best qualities was his deep love of family. He was a strong Father, tough but fair and deep down inside a softy. (I think everybody knew it but him giggles) Andy worked hard and spent many hours and days away from home making sure his family was provided for in every way. Andy was adventurous and loved to travel and experience new things. He was thoughtful and kind. Although he worked hard, he was always available to anyone who needed him to listen and guide them with his vast wisdom. He was generous with his time and advice.
We will dearly miss you our friend. You will live in our hearts and our memories until we meet again. May your spirit soar through the universe in eternal peace.
To Infinity and Beyond Dear Andy!!!!
To all who mourn may the love of family and friends surround you and may our love comfort you.
May God bless us all & guide us through our grief and bring us peace.

Sincerely with love and Prayers,
Bernie and Mary Jo
I cannot compose the words that will ever state just how very much I appreciated Andy's humor, good will, intellect, thoughtfulness and excellence in clinical care. He was a true example of humanity and a wonderful friend and colleague. I can say without hesitation that he will be greatly missed by his colleagues and friends in University Reproductive Care at the University of Washington. Many heartfelt condolences are sent to his family.
Andy: warm, genuine, authentic, highly intelligent, articulate, pragmatic, visionary, mentor, businessman, IVF Lab Director, appreciator of great music and creative culinary dishes, leader, provider of guidance, teacher, listener, family man, father, husband, boss, friend. These are the thoughts that come to my mind when I think of Andy. The world has lost someone who made so many positive impacts. I have lost a mentor, but I’ll take with me what he has taught me and continue to push forward into the unknown. Andy’s legacy continues inside all of us who knew him.
I smile when I think of the 25 years Andy and I worked together. I am privileged to have spent so many years with him as my boss, mentor, and friend. Together we solved many problems, shared many innovative accomplishments, and exchanged many stories. He has set the bar high for his dedication, dependability, and determination. It never felt like work when Andy was around, and he was the reason I have enjoyed working in the lab so much.
Pam, Please accept my heartfe…
Pam, Please accept my heartfelt condolences. My heart goes out for you and family. This is so sudden, was hoping to work with him in future. Life is so fragile that in just a moment it alters who we are for forever!!
Andy visited us many times at Austin IVF and made sure we were properly trained in the art of egg freezing. I always enjoyed his visits because they would inevitably end up with sharing crazy stories that happened to both of us during our years in IVF. I miss his infectious laugh, his sense of humor and his caring for our infertile patients.
He was a wonderful man who was loved by so many friends.
Andy was always incredibly gracious with his time knowledge and experience. He will be sorely missed by all who had contact with him.RIP my friend.
My deepest condolences . It was an honor to meet him and learn from him at GIVF . He will be missed!
Andy was one of my favorite uncles. Alexis and I would look forward to visiting Aunt Pam and uncle Andy's house. From their exquisite cuisines to Andy's delicious grilled dishes. We love listening to stories about their world travels and looking at pictures. He is a person I look up to and tell myself, wow you are an amazing human being. I am so lucky to have gotten to call you my uncle. We will miss you.
So , I worked very long hours with Andy back when GIVF was first starting. After 14 hours or so we would get so punchy! And had a toy- a disc with suction cups that you threw and it would stick to wherever it landed. I can remember Andy naming it Mr. Sucky-face. He would launch it at the clock saying”Ok Mr. Suckyface what time do I get to go home?” We were soooo punchy we made would cry laughing. There were so many times laughing at ridiculous things. We had a student intern named Will and every time there was a retrieval and Andy worked with Will , Andy would sing “Follicle Will the sailor.” I know these seem stupid but it’s like that time for me now is a series of these warm vignettes that make me smile. You all know the incredible impact Andy had on all of our lives, and I’m not any different. This is a devastating loss.
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I remember in high school, my sister and I would spend a lot of our time at Andy’s house (to be with Becky, but also to eat all of Pam and Andy’s delicious home cooking). We were always loud and rambunctious. Andy would come and say “girls, keep it down. I can’t deal with all this yelling!” Then minutes later we would have dinner together and we would complain of boy troubles and Andy would give us sweet advice and sometimes roll his eyes. He treated my sister and I just as he would his own children. He would be happy for our accomplishments and proud. He is truly one of the most giving, generous, hard working people I know. I only wish he had more time on earth. I miss him. I love him. I wish he was here.
Some of our FEB family
2018, FEB Dinner
Some of our FEB family
Our sweet Andy!
2018, FEB Holiday Party
Our sweet Andy!
Debbie, Andy, Emily, Larry
2018, FEB Holiday Party
Debbie, Andy, Emily, Larry

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