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Peter Marflitt
2009, Laguna Woods, CA, USA

About Bill from his wife Margaret:

I left school just before I was 17 and worked in a pharmacy (chemist shop) called Owens

and Sons. The secretary there was Mrs. Flora Bell who lived next door to Bill. She

introduced us and we played tennis together. Bill also introduced me to classical music.

We were engaged in 1953. Bill was still at college then. When he got his degree, he

went to work in London and then Beecham's in Brockham. Later he joined ICI and

worked in Merseyside and then in Grangemouth in Scotland.

!955 Bill and Margaret were married at Brunswick Methodist Church in

Newcastle on Tyne. We honeymooned in London at the Strand Palace hotel (total bill

was 13+ pounds) Went to live in Scotland; rented a room in a flat but

had the use of the whole place as Mrs. Gibbs lived with her daughter in

Falkirk. We bought a house in Falkirk right next to the railway station.

Bill rode a motor bike to and from work and then we got a little Austin with a soft top.

The first summer was glorious weatherwise and we drove all over Scotland in it. We had

a flat tire once and had no jack and were out in the wilds. As it happened we were on a

soft shoulder so we dug under the wheel and managed to change it.

He changed his job and we moved to

Picktree, Co. Durham, first living with parents, during which time

I lost a baby at seven months.

We lived in Picktree for a few years during which time John and Peter

were born. After seven years, Bill became chief chemist at McKecknies

in Warrington. And we lived in Barnton and Little Leigh and at that house we built a

greenhouse on the side of the house by ourselves. Bill was paying 33% in taxes at that

time and he applied for a job in Canada and got it. We moved to

Alberta Canada in 1968, flying first to Amsterdam in a prop plane (very bumpy for our

first flight) then by Canadian Pacific. It was relatively empty and the boys were taken up

to the cockpit. It was January and we expected to be knee deep in snow but there was

only a light covering, but bitterly cold. The airport at that time was 17 miles out of the

city but is now totally surrounded by the city. Bill worked there as a bench chemist with

triple the salary. This was a good period for our social life with a good group

of friends and we acquired a dog, Geordie. After six months Bill's father died suddenly.

His mother came shortly after that and stayed for six months. The company went

bankrupt after

moving all of us down to Amherstburg Ont in 1970. Bill wrote all over the States

and Canada for a job and Basic Chemicals in Cleveland was the only place that

responded favorably but we had to wait ten months for a visa, so he took a

job with a firm on Toronto as interim. Finally the papers came through.

He went ahead and found a place and I drove down with the kids and dog in January

1972, stopping overnight in Erie PA.

The place in Middleburg Heights Ohio was rented by Joanne Shoberg who

became a very good friend. I went to work at Cleveland Trust bank, being there 8 years.

We bought a house in Berea in 1975 and lived there till 1982, when the company moved

us to Bettsville, Oh. Bill's Mam came six time in all, sometimes with Bill's cousin

Lottie. We bought a great place in the country with a pond and 3 acres. In the meantime

Peter had moved to Tulsa, OK to go to the Spartan School of Aeronautics and got his

start in the aviation field. John went to College in Cleveland and got his degree. While still there he worked for Nordson in the summers and they gave him a job.

In 1989, Basic was bought over and Bill took early retirement to keep the medical

benefits. I was working for Bank of Ohio and this was a great experience where I made

lasting friends.

We decided to move to Florida, first to Alva, to a mobile home park, where I first tried

synchronized swimming, and then to Little Leigh. One of our neighbors, Margaret, was

pretty much house bound. She had a delicious sense of humor and would yell over

'Margaret get your butt over here'. She had grapefruit trees and we got a lot of them, so

much so that we bought a small freezer just to keep the fruit and it lasted from season to

season. This town had a great senior center and I learned a lot there including crochet,

pine needle and punch needle craft. We spent the first three summers back in Ohio where

Bill worked as a consultant and I worked in the bank. After that we spent the summers in

Murphy NC where I learned to wood carve.

After 9 years, Peter and Valerie, who were living together, and John, came to Florida for

Christmas. We were staying in a motel that catered for windsurfers, a quaint little place,

and it was then that we were told that Valerie was pregnant. We were overjoyed as we

had not expected to become grandparents. Pete and Val were married in Maui on

February 14th 1997. When Ben was born we went out to visit for three weeks and we

decided to move to California to be near them. We moved into Leisure World in 1998,

moving twice and then Peter and Valerie were moved to Arizona and we followed them.

We stayed two years but couldn't tolerate the heat and returned to what became Laguna

Woods Village in 2004. At that time, Bill was diagnosed with

Alzheimer's disease. In November 2008, after the family had all got together in Vonna's

house in Newport Beach (Joan, Kathryn, David, John and Bic, Pete and family, my

brother, Malcolm and Judith, he was diagnosed with Leukemia

and died in April 2008. We were able to go to England to see him before he died. At

that time we also saw David and Sue's new house and where Kathryn was living at

Boulmer on the North Sea. Kathryn has since bought a house on the same street in

Boulmer.

2009, Bill is slowly losing his memory, but we are doing everything we can to help slow

it down.

Letter to Margaret and Bill from Bill's sister Joan:

Hi Margaret & Bill, My memories of Hexthorpe are very sketchy. The things I remember

about the house were that I slept in a bedroom which had a paper with rose

buds on, 'cos I used to try and count the rosebuds. To reach it I had to go

through a bigger bedroom, which I assume must have been Mam and Dads, and

there was a step down into mine. The other thing which I had nightmares

about years after we left, was the cellar. I was absolutely terrified of it,

and for some reason I used to think there was a lion living down there. I

think we had to go down to put a coin in the meter, but I'm not sure on

that. I remember we lived beside the railway, so it was always a bit sooty,

and we used to go and play in the 'backses'.  Can't remember any of the kids

we used to play with, but I can still hear Mam shouting 'BILLEE' when she

wanted us in, and that was for both of us. You see, you were the boss even

then! Our weekly treat was going for a walk with Mam and Dad, and I think it

was round the Race Course. The treat was - while they had a shandy or

something, we had a lemonade and a packet of crisps. Gosh we were easily

pleased in those days. Another treat I can remember was Dad always bought

Mam a bar of cadburys whole nut chocolate (her favourite) every week. I

can't remember myself being the rose queen on the photos I sent, and where

they got the money from to dress me like that I'll never know, but it must

have been a proud day for them. The only teacher I can remember and I still

remember her with affection, she was lovely, was a lady called Miss Steele -

I thought the world of her. But of course you were my big brother, so

wouldn't remember, and neither can I, much of our school days. I can only

~look at photos. I can remember playing marbles in the gutter (health and

hygiene?) and all the bye gone kids games, and they always seemed very happy

days. We certainly had a lot to be grateful for, maybe we didn't have much

money, but we had a lot of love.

I'll put more of my memories, such as they are, down at a later date, but I

hope you enjoy reading this. I'm feeling quite emotional myself just doing

it and realise just how lucky we are to have each other (and that includes

you Margaret) and what a lot we have to thank our parents for. We didn't

have a bad life did we?

Time running out, so I'll say bye for now - tons and tons of luv, Joan

Helping hands

In lieu of flowers

Please consider a donation to any cause of your choice.
Bill with his grandson
2005, Gilbert, AZ, USA
Bill with his grandson
Family at Kings Fish House
2009, Laguna Woods, CA, USA
Family at Kings Fish House

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