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We are meeting here today via the internet from the home of Lori Doyle, Travis’s mom in Albert Lea, MN and the Elks Lodge #557 in Central City, CO. To honor and celebrate the life of Travis Brackey. Though none of
us know how long a soul will have on this earth, when one leaves so
early in their life we always wish we had been given just a little more
time to share with them. Please find comfort in knowing that he is now
pain free and his earthly struggles have ended. 46 years ago today in Bismarck ND at St. Anthony Hospital, Travis was
born to parents Bill and Lori Brackey joining big sister Billie Jo to
complete the small family. He passed away March 10
th
,of this year 2024, at St. Anthony Hospital, Wheat Ridge, CO. During his early childhood he
lived a short time in St. Anthony ND and attended 2
nd grade at North
Dakota’s last remaining one room schoolhouse aptly named St. Anthony’s School. Makes you wonder if this patron saint of lost things
wasn’t Travis’s personal guardian all along. Travis did have many enjoyments in his life and some were lifelong and
started early, mainly music. Even before he attended his first day at
school, Travis had found music that reach his soul. And on many, many, far too many very early mornings he would wake up before anyone else, and using a kitchen chair to look in high spots, he would find where his
mom had hidden his precious. Then with treasure in hand he would pull
the chair over to the shelf where the record player sat and put the vinyl
album on the turntable. For ever long he could get away with it, he
played at full volume the only song from the Styxx album that mattered
to him, Mr. Roboto. As soon as the song finished he would lift the
needle and start again, doing this dozens of times. Only stopping when
mom woke up and came out to turn the stereo off and hide the record
for another morning. Travis totally embraced other aspects of his music as well, including the
equipment needed for best quality sound played at full volume. This
meant packing as many amps and speakers into the back of vehicle hewas driving. When one of his first pickups became airborn and rolled
after snapping off the wooden 4x4 post holding the dangerous curve
sign. He walked away unharmed and singing the praises for his new
Aspen CD player he had just installed and kept on playing even upside
down. One of the best ways he enjoyed his music was with friends at a
concert, and his favorite spot to be at when at a concert was The Mosh
Pit. Sometimes he had too much fun in the pit and was removed, only to
finish listening to the concert from outside as he waited for the friends
he came with to come out when the concert ended. At the age of 9 Travis moved to Colorado with his mom and sister. Beginning at creekside in Eldorado Springs, then higher into the
mountains to Nederland, finally to live his remaining childhood at 9200ft. 3 quarters of the way up Mt. Thorodin where he learned mountain
driving on Wedgewood Rd. Travis was never a city child he was always a
rural child and loved mountain living the most. After moving from the
family home he always kept his home somewhere in Gilpin County. Many here or watching today were classmates of Travis at Nederland
High, and surely many of you have a school remembrance of Travis and
how he was. I
During his Jr. and Sr. Years at Nederland he was basically referred as a
quiet type. But those that knew him, knew he was always sharpening
his cynical sense of humor, ready to hide it in a critique of some
unsuspecting classmate or teacher. He was also good for a daring
exploit or two also. Whether it was helping make a dryice bomb that was
found and taken to the Priciples office and put upon her desk only to
explode later in the evening, with no one around and the only injuries
were to a few ceiling tiles. Or driving an older light blue Jeep Wagoneer
which was a loaner from his parents that he named the Whoop Dee, since when he thought of having to drive it he thought whoop dee do. When stating it was ugly but it made a great mountain vehicle he
decided his words alone weren’t enough and he would provide a visual. Since it had previously snowed heavily the deep ditch in front of the
school was full of snow level to the top. He announced he would go
down one side and Whoop Dee would make it through and up to the top
of the other side. Then he turn his music on as loud as he could and
floored the jeep. All that was seen was tons of flying swirling snow then
poof Travis and Whoop Dee appeared on the other side, minus Whoop
Dees large front grill. The crowd cheered wildly, and Travis proudly
retrieved the busted up grill.Chances are if you didn’t know Trav from school, you were once
probably a co-worker. Travis only had one job outside of casinos, that
was at B&F Foods in Nederland. He worked after school and weekend
nights. Where he learned grocery stocking and how to build a dry ice
bomb. His first job in the casinos was when he was hired to work in the
kitchen at The Gilpin Casino. Where one of his duties was to get rum
from the bar for the rum-cake. One day an observant manager watched
as Travis retrieved more rum than what deemed necessary and found
only about half the amount had made it to the kitchen. Next job was at
The Teller House Casino in Central City. Beginning as a line cook, which
his mother found amazing knowing that at home he couldn’t even cook
a hot dog. Soon he advanced onto the gaming floor and started paying
customers their winnings and learning the slots. He stayed working in
the slot department the rest of his career. Going from lead slot tech to
being one the managers. Travis was a great co-worker. He knew his job
well and always brought his sarcastic sense of humor with him. If you
were lucky you were able to see first hand when he used it on an
unsuspecting,and usually clueless recipient. He had the best deadpan
answers to what he considered to be stupid questions. Though most
friends were able to see and enjoy Trav’s humorous side, some saw his
compassionate, caring side too. He offered a broad shoulder to cry into
and a patient ear to listen with. When not at work Travis was all about playing and loved sharing his fun
with friends. He very much looked forward to time he was able to spend
with a good friend with a shared interest. Maybe it was taking the guns
out for target practise or testing a new one. Or the starting a new
football season and cheering for one of his favorite teams, either the
Denver Broncos or the MN Vikings, only to have both teams
continuously disappoint him at seasons end. In the winters he liked to
go snowboarding. His early days of snowboarding were when
snowboarding was brand new and not allowed on the groomed slopes. Snowboarders had to sneak their boards in and rough it in the back
country. But riding the dirt bike was his soul sport, especially the trips
that included camping out and partying. Every year going with the same
group of friends to Moab, Utah and riding the sand dunes.. This
particular group of close friends have known each other for over half
their lifetime and have traveled the route to Moab for over 20 years. This year will be Travis’s final trip with the gang. They will be taking his
ashes and spreading them among the sand dunes and trails he loved toride. Travis shared his fun with not only his human friends but with his
dogs as well, his dogs went everywhere with him. His first dogs were
siblings, Rottweiler/Shepard mix, he named Dakota and Cheyenne. He
was in his early 20’s when he adopted them and together the three of
them grew into maturity. After being together for 16 years it became
time for the pups to go to the Rainbow Bridge and wait for him. They
were followed by Kenya aka Boo who at an early age was found to have
diabetes. For all of the 13 years they were together he administered her
daily insulin shots and prepared her special diet. In return she was with
him during some of his darkest moments. She preceded him in death by
a few months, quietly passing away in his arms. We can only pray that
the Rainbow Bridge does exist and he is back with the dogs he loved so
much. Travis’s biggest, deepest, truest love of his life was without a doubt his
daughter Riley. March 17
th
, 2015 Travis’s world changed completely. As
she was placed in his hands for the first time she had his heart 100%, he
loved her unconditionally. Having her in his life eased his pain and only
she could pull back the dark clouds allowing some sunshine back into his
life. Hopefully she will be able to remember him and what a loving dad
he had been to her. Maybe she’ll keep memories of shopping for “Wows” with him in a stores toy department, or going to a theater and
watching the movie on the big screen with lots of popcorn and having
chick chick with dip dip for lunch ( translation: Chick-fil-A ), or best of all
how she could get him to repeatedly play the song Let it go from the
soundtrack of Frozen as they drove up and down the canyon. Even
though he knew she was in safe and loving care, leaving her to grow up
without him was nothing he ever wanted. Travis’s passing has left a huge deep hole in so many of us, but in time
that hole will become smaller and more tolerable. We will get through
this in his memory we must. In that memory we still have his essence
that we can talk to and hear his reply. Hopefully when the time comes
he’ll also be waiting for us.