Memories of Tom Jacob Spaulding

In memory of

Tom Jacob Spaulding

Raleigh, NC

June 27, 1961 - February 12, 2023

Jun 27, 1961 - Feb 12, 2023

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Carol and Wayne Sweatland

The Christmas Eve soup party will never be the same. Will miss his beautiful smile and quick wit. RIP Tom we will miss you 😢❤️

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Eric Connor

Sending love and support to all that surrounded Tom.

Deepest sympathy from Eric Connor

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Stephanie Sudano

In memory of a colleague. Tom made an indelible mark in helping build our community of Holly Springs through his engineering and development skills - from way back at the very beginning of our lovely community’s growth. I didn’t really know that much about the personal side of Tom, but his volunteer work with kids in lacrosse speaks for itself. I do remember his passion when he spoke about it and his love for his family. A reminder that life is so short really. I’ll be praying for Tom’s wife and family.

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Tarik Ergin

I am pained by this news and I would like to extend my condolences to Tommy’s family. I regret that there are no words I can offer to ameliorate your grief. Please accept my sympathy, as unsatisfactory as that obviously is.

Tommy and I were teammates at Cornell and while we have not been in contact since leaving Ithaca, I have thought of him often because I see him often. I have a photo of us on my wall, playing versus UPenn. I have posted it for others to see.

With Love and Sympathy….

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Andy Phillips

Tarik Ergin

1982, Franklin Field, Philadelphia, PA

Faceoff Vs Penn

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Andy Phillips

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Tarik Ergin

Tommy is #28 Tommy is #28 Tommy is #28

Andy Phillips

Tom has gotten himself into great position to box out his opponent- allowing Tarik to secure this faceoff.... Read more Tom has gotten himself into great position to box out his opponent- allowing Tarik to secure this faceoff. We went on to win this... Read more Tom has gotten himself into great position to box out... Read more

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James Turbyfill

I am so sorry to hear this news. I went with Tom fishing a few times and he provided a few of the most memorable exciting experiences out on the water that I ever had. I wish his wife and family well and would like to pass along my condolences. He was a good guy. May he rest in peace.

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