This happened a my Aunts house on Richland Dr in Des Moines. A mutual friend was angry at Tim for some reason so I took him over to my Aunts house. When he came over and started hollering my red headed Aunt hollered at him from an upstairs window to leave us alone. Said she had a ball bat up there and she'd use it too
So sorry for your family's loss. I had as you know been friends with Tim for over 40 years. He was really a wonderful friend and I think he'd think of me the same. Prayers for you all as you work through this. God bless