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Our hearts go out to the Elst…
Our hearts go out to the Elston family in this time of loss and we would like to celebrate the life Dr. Thomas Elston lived. He was the first Doctor to ever care for our cats, Bleu and Monterey Jack. We never told him, but when we would take the cats to see him, we'd tell them that they were going to see 'Dr. Grandpa'. We called him this because we could see that he loved cats very much and we were always slightly anxious that we would disappoint him somehow when it came to care of our cats. When Monterey Jack needed hip surgery, Dr. Elston was compassionate and informative and our boy got through it. However, a couple of years ago, he passed away due to cancer very young and we were devastated. We still have the card he wrote us. Thank you, Dr. Elston. Thank you for the life you've lived.
Dr. Elston was truly extraordinary; such a brilliant, kind and compassionate soul. We were so fortunate to find him decades ago in his Irvine office that had the big cat statue with the ball of yarn in front. There wasn’t a child in Irvine that didn’t love and appreciate that giant cat! Dr. Elston cared for many of our little ones, including Isabella the feral kitten rescued from a parking lot in Los Angeles. He clearly went above and beyond in patiently caring for our unpredictable girl for 17 years. One of his last patients was our Tuxie Louis; he guided us through Louis’ cancer battle and truly provided him (and us) with several more months of quality life together. I honestly cannot begin to convey how much Dr. Elston contributed to our family. I wish Dr. Elston’s children and cherished grandchildren the very best and I sincerely thank you for sharing your wonderful father/grandfather with all of us.  ❤️ The Patrick Family
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Surprised and sad to hear of Dr. Elston's passing.  He was a kind and caring vet and it was a pleasure to visit with him when I bought my kitty (Arco) in for an exam.  
Dear Dr. Ellston, thank you for the loving care you gave our Junipurr for these past five years! We appreciate you and wish your family love, peace, and wellness! 
Booboo passed exactly 1 week …
2023, Orange County, CA, USA
Booboo passed exactly 1 week from Dr Elston. I hope they are living in peace. This world will miss Dr Elston. I know my heart broke when I heard of his cancer. And it breaks today to hear he is no longer here. He was the best Dr Vet I ever had and I was devastated when he no longer practiced. He was extraordinary, kind, brilliant, empathetic and a joy. I am thankful he cared for my Booboo for 7 years. Blessed. He can never be replaced. May he live in peace with all the beautiful animals he loved and cared for. I guess I have comfort knowing Booboo and Dr Elston left this earth 1 week apart. I send love to his family may his legacy shine on. Thank you Dr Elston for helping Booboo, he was a trying kitty with many ailments but Dr Elston just talked to him like he was a litttle kid. He told me I was a good nurse when I started Booboo on fluids, it made me feel like I could help my cat. I’d text Dr Elston when he was on call and send him pics of Booboos swollen leg or scratched ears. Always with calmness he would let me know that he hasn’t seen this before that my Booboo was special, had unique issues. So when Booboo passed or blood clots in heart, I thought what Dr Elston said, Booboo wasn’t going to die of his 5 medical diagnosis but of his heart. I miss you Dr Elston. I know if Booboo was here, he would say meooooaaasoowww. Thank you. — with Booboo and Dr Elston
I was so sorry to hear about Thomas's passing. He was such a thoughtful, kind, thoroughly good caregiver for all of our beloved cats over the years.[ 

Dr. Elston was the kindest, most caring man. He has been, and will continue to be greatly missed, and will always be the "caregiver in spirit" to both Pookie (who has since passed) and Cougar (Pookie's offspring). 

Ron & Sue Talaska

Dr. Elston took care of our cats for many years. He was so much more than a wonderful Vet. He was a gentle and caring person to our cats and to us. My wife and I send our sincere condolences to his family, and our hearts go out to them. Murray and Barb Kaufman
I offer my deepest condolences, especially on behalf of Sandra Satterwhite, Tom's former sister-in-law, who passed away in 2019. She knew Tom far longer and far better than I did, and I know (because she told me so) that she truly treasured his friendship and was always profoundly grateful for the kind, gentle and skilled professional care he provided for her beloved animal companions, even the sometimes ill-tempered Siamese known as Grafton, though we did have to sort of sneak Tutti the toy poodle in the back door of T.H.E. Cat Hospital after hours. I trust Tom and Sandra have been having a chat about all the people they love who are still here on the planet.
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We are so deeply saddened to hear this news. We loved Dr. Elston & we’re so grateful for the many years he cared for our kitties. We suffered some losses, but he always helped us through the hard times & loved & cared for our fur babies throughout all their lives.  My kids grew up knowing Dr. Elston would always be there for their beloved pets.  Thank you for the loving care. We will always remember you with gratitude.
Marshmallow still lives. Than…
2024, Georgia, USA
Marshmallow still lives. Thank you Dr. Elston — with Marshmallow
We first met Dr. Tom when we moved to Tustin in 1991.  He cared for our Siamese, Button and Zipper.  When someone boarded a big black cat, and never returned, Dr. Tom let us adopt Raider.  Then Dr. Tom cared for our tabby, Simon.  We moved to Indio in 2005.  When we needed care for our newly adopted kittens, Cosmo and Shadow, we knew where to go.  It didn’t matter the drive was 2-hours.  Everything I know about cats, I learned from Dr. Tom.  He was an amazing man.
I will always remember the great care Dr. Elston and his office provided to my cats, especially in the tough times.  He is greatly missed.
We have taken our fur babies to Dr. Elston since his office was on Culver. We wanted to take them somewhere that did not have a bunch of barking dogs. This was a perfect place. And his overall treatment of them was obviously very caring. He treated all the cats as though they were his own.
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I am so sad that Dr.Elston is no longer on earth with us but forever in my heart. He was so sweet and kind and the love he had for his feline patients was so precious. I love sharing with people the memories I have of him and will continue to share them with others. Missing you Dr.Elston🤍
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I have known Tom since 1992. Not a client at the time, I placed an emergency call to Dr. Tom on Thanksgiving afternoon as advised by a friend. I had a very sick cat. To my amazement, Dr. Tom responded and met us at T.H.E. Cat Hospital in Irvine for an emergency appointment. My sweet Mikie was in kidney failure. Tom saved Mikie's life with quick response, dedication, and expertise. Mikie and I had much to be thankful for that Thanksgiving.

Fifteen years later, I found myself with Tom again on Thanksgiving. This time as a couple. I cherish all the time we spent together right to the end. His love for animals and dedication to his clients always amazed me. He was one of a kind. One of the good guys. I will love him always.

A personalized tile in memory of our relationship has been installed at The Cheyenne Mountain Zoo, one of Tom's favorite places. The pelican on the tile is significant to our kayaking adventures in the Newport Beach Back Bay. The tile has become part of an entry wall in the hippo exhibit. 

... Cheryl Smith

Tom is my cousin – his father and my mother were brother and sister. I had no first cousins on my father’s side.

I have a few fuzzy memories in the early 1950’s when Tom lived in Kinsman, Ohio - where I grew up and where our Grandparents, Tom and Ruby Elston also lived. Tom was the oldest of the cousins and named after our grandfather. Most of my interaction with Tom occurred after his family moved to Ashtabula. I remember our family going to Ashtabula for Christmas or Thanksgiving and one very memorable snow storm that stranded us on the road until a farmer took us in and I had my first glass of unpasteurized milk.

Tom had a “hat trick” that involved the mirror on the closet door in the front entry way that made it look like the hat could move on its own. And, I remember a triple chocolate cake that he baked for us – it might have been a Boy Scout recipe.

I remember fishing with our Grandpa Elston, bamboo poles tied to the door handles on the side of his car. I remember both of us in his garage while he was cleaning out his attic. Grandpa brought down a World War I mess kit, medical bag, and a gas mask. He intended to give Tom the mess kit and I objected on the basis Tom was a boy scout and already had one. So, Grandpa gave it to me and I enjoyed having it but never felt right about it, and returned it to Tom a few years ago. I believe Tom kept it on his desk at T.H.E. Cat.

And, there were the legendary, Elston Spoon games. Tables broken, blood drawn, first aid occasionally necessary.

Tom’s Dad and my Mom competed almost annually to see who would have the first ripe tomato. A competition so intense that my Mom convinced my Dad to wire a store-bought tomato to her tomato plant in the front flower bed and she declared a win until Tom’s Dad figured it out.

I have to admit, in those early days, I was somewhat envious of Tom’s stature as the oldest cousin in the Elston/Trosper clan. He set the bar pretty high: Eagle Scout, accomplished diver, the first to go to an excellent college, merchant marine, veterinarian, contributions to an innovative approach to horse surgery involving a tilting table, a honeymoon on a sailboat, and first to move to a coastal city (with many family members to follow), and the clever play on his initials with T.H.E. Cat Hospital - I think his successes made me try harder and achieve a few successes of my own.

I appreciate the examples of excellence Tom set for me in our early days. As son, father, brother, Dr., industry leader and, in my case, cousin – Tom will be missed.

- Greig Trosper

We are all diminished when we lose a family member, but it is more so with those who grew up with or were raised by the one who is lost.  The void Tom left in our hearts cannot be filled. But over time we can continue to remember what he contributed to our lives and the ways in which he touched us all.  May he be at peace.

The story below was written by Tom in 1966 and published in Potpourri, his high school's literary magazine.

Travel Trials on the Trail

Following the old wagon trails of the gold rush days can still be hazardous and perilous for the modern-day traveler, as my family and I discovered two summers ago. We followed the route, known as the Mormon Trail, that my great-great grandfather had traversed as wagon master of a wagon train in 1853.

We had just come across the Continental Divide at South Pass in Wyoming. Our road map showed an unimproved road that left the main highway we were on and cut cross-country to one we wanted to catch. We figured this would save us about 180 miles; and, as it corresponded to a short cut known as Sublettel’s Cut-off on the trail map, we decided to become pioneers and “rough it”.

First, we stopped in the little town of Farson, Wyoming, where the road started, to inquire about the condition of the road. We were told it was a forty-mile stretch of dirt road, hardly ever used, cutting across a prairie containing nothing but a few natural inhabitants. We were also told it was safe, provided we didn’t have a flash rain storm. The sky was bright and we had made up our minds to be adventurous, so we started off.

My dad was a little leery about making the short trip because we had two bad tires. Although there was a new set of tires on the car when we left Ashtabula, we had replaced one by then and two others were almost bald. My dad realized the rough road might be quite hard on the tires, but he was more of a pioneer than the rest of us, so we chanced it.

The first fifteen miles went by smoothly. We met one motor vehicle, a government truck, and it turned out to be the only one we encountered. We were enjoying the scenery, watching the prairie dogs and jack rabbits along the road when all of a sudden my mother started screaming, "Look out! Look!” A magnificent prong horned antelope bounded just in front of our car and sped off across the plains on the other side of the road. It was quite a thrill seeing an antelope that close, but it was a little too close for comfort.

As we talked of the near miss, the car began to sway slightly. We had a flat and were twenty miles from nowhere in the middle of a semi-desert. We unhitched our Apache camping trailer, unloaded our trunk and changed the tire. After reloading the car, we continued more conservatively on our way.

We watched the miles ro1l slowly by on the odometer. We had about three miles to go when we came to a river. The bridge that crossed it appeared to be a good sturdy one, capable of bearing many tons, but it only appeared to be. A pretty, little yellow sign nailed to it caught our attention. Printed across it in big, red letters was B-R-I-D-G-E U-N-S-A-F-E.

Do you think we turned around and went back? Well, we didn't. With the courage of those early travelers, my dad slowly started our car across the bridge. Everybody held their breath, trying to make themselves as light possible. The bridge creaked and groaned. All of us were ready to tumble into the river, but not a plank of the bridge gave way. As soon as we reached the opposite bank, and not until then, everyone breathed a big sigh of relief.

We reached the main highway safely and continued on our way, but all of our thoughts were on the adventure of the afternoon. The hazards and perils we had encountered made us feel closer to our pioneer ancestors than anything else on the trip.

Tom Elston

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My most vivid and treasured memories of Tom are playing basketball with him on many occasions when we were students at the College of Wooster. He was a fierce competitor who played with total commitment. It was a joy to be on the court with him -- especially if we were on the same team. He was the kind of player whose influence on the game was to increase the level of participation and performance of everyone else in the game. I think Tom Elston was in life as on the basketball court what we called a PLAYER who "left it all on the court."
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Very sorry to hear of Tom’s passing.  We were classmates through high school. Many fond memories  of a kind, caring gentleman! May he rest in peace.

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