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Thomas Graham Bailey, aged 75 of Hamden, CT died on the evening of April 21st 2020 at Yale New Haven Hospital. He was the son of Raymond Howard Bailey and Anita Elizabeth Graham and half-brother to Fern Abbatello of CT and MaryAnn Bailey of CA. Tom is survived by his children with his second wife, Jamie Miller; his daughter, Keri Bailey of MA and her three children, Collin, R.J. and Madison along with his son Tom Bailey of CT and his daughter, Emma.

Tom was a retired Army veteran who returned home from service in Germany with his beloved German Shepherd named Ollie. Tom was an avid outdoors-man who enjoyed fishing and hunting with rifles he crafted himself. He was so frequent a visitor to Clark's pond in Hamden, that for a long time there was a make-shift sign that hung on a tree in the parking lot designating it "Bailey's Point." Tom battled a lot of demons, his greatest were alcohol and Type 2; which took a toll on his body in an internal war he never cared enough to try to fight. May he finally know peace.

Due to the current situation, there are no services or interment planned at this time. Thank you to those whom have shared memories of happier times.

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I miss you Tom. Thru thick and thin, we were always friends! From your house on Pond Hill Rd , true Clark's Pond and be…
I miss you Tom. Thru thick and thin, we were always friends! From your house on Pond Hill Rd , true…
I miss you Tom. Thru thick and thin, we were always friends! Fro…
I am saddened to hear Tommy has passed away . We go back many years. Too many to really believe. RIP old pal. Kelly…
I am saddened to hear Tommy has passed away . We go back many years. Too many to really believe. …
I am saddened to hear Tommy has passed away . We go back many y…

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