I send my deepest condolences to Stu’s loved ones. My heart aches to imagine such tragic loss happening so suddenly.

I only knew Stu through a narrow and powerful lens. He showed up as a loving adult to children that weren’t “his”.  I only knew Stu through Zara and when I read his beautiful obituary I am not surprised.  Even at the narrow view I had, he was everything as wonderful as described. 

Zara’s sons and mine grew up in the same classes through elementary, middle and high school. And for x amount of years, Stu has been there at every concert, graduation, game, party, etc.!  It is no surprise he showed up for these kids. And what a blessing he brought to this world. 

He will be deeply missed. May his love for you all shine bright from within you. 

I’ll always remember Stu as the kind guy that was always great to be around. 

From college days to more recently, my regret is not to spend more time having fun with our shared friendships from our days in New  Paltz. ❤️🌈

We had the privilege of hosting Stu and Zara on their roadtrip travels through Virginia. Every time we laughed until our faces hurt and tears rolled down our cheeks.  Thank you to Stu (and Zara) for such joyous memories. Stu, you will be missed.

Mary & Shawn