Sincerest condolences to your family. You were a great manager, father and husband!! So sad to hear of your passing. 

Dear Stephen, it's been a while since we have seen you, but we are so deeply saddened that you have left us so soon.  We will never forget your humor, your hilarious drawings and stories, your kindness and patience you showed to my dad even way back when you worked for Verizon LOL! I know dad my dad was a handful.  And lets not forget your famous VCU political taping you made of Michael when he was 9 or 10 years old, his rant on why it's better to be a Republican! that was awesome!  I loved and also bragged about the relationship between you and your big sister Provy,  ( my dearest friend), it was one unlike any that I had known, she raised you, and raised herself as well, and that could not have been easy, but you both came through it all by God's Love and Grace. And she stood by your side until the end. Your son Shep is your twin! I so enjoy the pictures and videos that Provy shares, with me, he is precious, and because of him you will continue to live on.  God bless Shep and Anne as they move forward in this life.  Rest in Peace Steven, you were a really good guy - We love you and will watch out for  your big sister from here on. . .  Valerie, Big Marvin, David, Lil Marvin and Michael.

Steve, I was there the day you were born (I still don’t think I’ve ever seen a baby with such an incredible amount of hair) and I was there the moment you took your last breath (fittingly almost immediately after the Dallas Stars lost one of their last games in the conference finals). I never would have made it through our tumultuous childhood without you by my side. Despite everything you overcame and got married, obtained your masters, had a baby, bought a home and had a chance to finally live a comfortable life that was unfairly cut short by too many decades. Many years ago I had to answer the question what the three most important things in my life were and my top answer was (and will always be) my brother because he’s my family and best friend rolled into one. Your legacy will live on in Anne, Shep, I and everyone else who was lucky enough to have known you and loved you. Energy can neither be created nor destroyed - wherever you’re going next be careful but don’t be afraid.

In memory of a loving husband, devoted father, cherished brother, and my very best friend.

You were outgoing and full of life, always lighting up a room with your presence, yet you held a quiet strength and privacy that grounded those around you. You touched every life with kindness, warmth, and honesty. You made me — and so many others — better just by being yourself.

We met in 2008, and from that very first moment, we just knew. It was effortless. It was meant to be. From laughter to late-night talks, from the everyday moments to the unforgettable ones, every memory is a treasure.

Shep and I are so grateful for every moment we got to spend with you. The memories Shep will share of you, and the traits he will carry on from you, are a living testament to the man you were. We will honor your memory — and your love for hockey — in everything we do.

You were deeply loved, and you will be deeply missed. Thank you for loving so fully and for letting me share life with you.

With all my heart,

Anne

My best friend died tonight after a year long battle with pancreatic cancer. Thank you, Stephen for being part of my live for the last forty years. I will always remember our conversations and wonderful memories we shared together. I’m definitely here today because of you and your companionship. Steve, I know your in a better place this evening and thank you for all the memories we experienced together. My prayers are with your wonderful family during this difficult time. I love you and miss you already

I was heartbroken to hear about Steve’s passing. Steve was one of the first leaders and mentors I connected with when I joined Capital One over 14 years ago, and he left a lasting impact on me from the very start. He was always sharp, fun, and incredibly caring—someone who just seemed to know the right thing to say at the right time.

Over the years, even as our roles and paths evolved, we stayed connected through our shared love of basketball and the occasional meetup. I continued to reach out from time to time over the past year following his diagnosis, and even then, his strength and spirit were evident.

Please accept my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and son, and with all who were lucky enough to know him. Heaven gained a new angel this week, and we lost someone truly special.

With heartfelt sympathy,