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Shari Lynn Dyer

Lansing, Michigan

February 15, 1969 - August 12, 2020

Feb 15, 1969 - Aug 12, 2020

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Selina Desiree

I miss you, mom..... I wish you were here, I still need you. I wait for you but you never come. I don't know how to do any of this without you. A world without you was not meant for me. I'm trying so hard to be as strong as you, but I fear that I'm not. I hope you are finally at rest, I love you.

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Selina Desiree

2025, Lansing, MI, USA

Stopping by to talk to you, mom. Today is the 5th year anniversary of your death. The loneliness without you never subsides. I miss you and need you more than ever, right now. I really hope to find the strength you had to get me through this point in my life. I never imagined a world without you, it's a cold, dark one.... I hope you're finally at peace. This is all for you. I love you.

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Selina Desiree

Hi mama! Happy Valentine's Day and an early "55" birthday in Heaven! The family will be getting together on Saturday to remember you and celebrate your birthday. We all miss and love you so much. Give 'em hell up there!

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Selina Desiree

2023

Hey, mom... Missing you a lot lately and you have been on my mind just as much. In just a few weeks it'll be the 3rd year anniversary of your death. I hate acknowledging it but I know that I have to, to heal and get used to a life without you. I wanted to stop by and "talk" to you. I'll be 25 years old on July 25th, which I think is pretty cool. Would be much better if you were here to celebrate with me though. I love you so much, mama. I'll be back again hopefully sometime soon. Rest easy my beautiful butterfly. I hope you enjoy the flowers, they're your favorite color.

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Selina Desiree

My mother, Shari, had a friend who became homeless; living on the street in the severe cold and extreme heat. She couldn't do much to help him but until his unfortunate passing, he'd come over and ring the bell to our apartment to let my mother know he was outside. She would be down within 5-10 minutes with a sandwich and cooked ramen noodles for him to eat.

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Selina Desiree

2023, Royal Scot Golf & Bowl, West Grand River Avenue, Lansing, MI, USA

Hi, mom! It's been a while since I've came and talked to you. Cass & I had another birthday party for you yesterday at the bowling alley. The kids bowled and played in the arcade and we had cake and pizza, and released balloons to you in heaven afterwards. We miss you a lot and love you a lot more. Fly high, my beautiful butterfly!

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Selina Desiree

2022

Happy (late) Heavenly Birthday, ma! We love and miss you so much.

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Selina Desiree

2022

Hey mom, I miss you.... Your birthday is in 14 days. You'd be 53 years old, had you been here with us. I still feel lost without you. I adopted this baby girl from the ICAS on December 11, 2021. We've had her almost 2 months and she is very lovely. She plays very rough and scratches David up but she gives both of us comfort. Her name is Ashley, she's a 2 year old Lynx Point Siamese. She's a moody little meezer, but I know you would have loved her. She is actually a pretty good cat, doesn't have accidents in the house or tear things up. She does scratch at our recliner, and has messed it up quite a bit, but what else should I have expected? We got a water bottle now to spray her and deter her from scratching our stuff, granted she has a scratching board AND post in the apartment, lol! Love you so much, mom. Just wanted to introduce you to Ashley. She doesn't replace you, no matter how hard I'd try, if I tried. No one compares to you. Speak later, mom. XO

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Selina Desiree

Thinking of you today mama! Love & miss you so much.

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Selina Desiree

2021

Finally got around to posting this photo on here, but I rearranged and cleaned your memoriam for the anniversary of your death. I miss & love you so much, mama. Therefore I try to keep your forever home in my home clean and comfortable for you.

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Selina Desiree

1998, Holt, Delhi charter Township, MI, USA

Christmas at Grandma's house, 1998. I was exactly 5 months old. Yesterday was my first birthday without you in 22 years. I love and miss you, mama. Rest in Heaven.

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Selina Desiree

2021

I'm raising awareness for brain cancer this May for you mama! Happy Mother's Day in Heaven, my beautiful butterfly.

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Selina Desiree

Butterflies and the color red.

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Selina Desiree

August 12, 2020. At this point she had been bedridden for 3 days and wasn't using the bedpan at all. So to get my mother to use the bathroom I had to lift her out of bed and set her on her commode. Thankfully on this day my uncle was coming over and he was able to help me a great deal. I noticed my mother was extremely heavy and that her face was gray and her legs were yellow. After finally fighting to get her back into bed and getting her comfy I turned on The Brady Bunch (we had always watched together), and my uncle spoon fed her 4 or 5 spoonful's of her favorite sherbet, the first thing she had eaten in a day and a half, before she became unresponsive and passed.

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Selina Desiree

2021

My balloon to you mama. Everyone wrote on one for you and we released them to you in heaven at 3pm yesterday!

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Selina Desiree

2021

Happy "52" Birthday in Heaven mom!

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Selina Desiree

"Little" Miss Deliah! My moms bright red 2005 Dodge Grand Caravan. She loved this mini van so much and was so proud of it. After having to get rid of it, I kept the spare key and put it on my moms memoriam.

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Selina Desiree

2020

Yummy blueberry pancakes with strawberry jam! Her favorite breakfast, and my favorite to make her.

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Selina Desiree

2020

Everyone who knew or met my mother knew that she was one bad a*s woman. Lol. Was a biker, a metalhead, a stoner and didn't always hang out with the best of crowds. But when she came home from the hospital she wanted all of this above the head of her bed. She wrote about God and Heaven. She was a different person. In her face she looked lighter and she carried herself lighter. For once in her life she walked with her little walker through our apartment and she didn't carry the weight of the world. She was happy to just go outside and soak in the sun. She loved when I allowed her to help with cooking and laundry. I think that's what helped us both, her and I, come to terms with her illness and eventual death. She was heavenly.

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Selina Desiree

2021, Michigan, USA

An Early Birthday Present!

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