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Ole St. Peter
Ole St. Peter — with Scott Rifenbark
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Vern Thompson
Portland International Airport (PDX), Northeast Airport Way, Portland, OR, USA
Scott, my son Gage and I were boarding an airplane for Phoenix, Arizona. We were going to visit Charlie Rifenbark, who was coaching for The Phoenix Rattler’s arena football team. As we were going through TSA before boarding one of the agents said to Scott, “You look just like the Dude!” With perfect timing, in his best “Dude” voice, and with a totally deadpan face, Scott responded, “Well, that’s your opinion man,” and casually walked through without the slightest glance backwards. Gage and I were in awe. That was Scott Rifenbark. 
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Another Scott
2024, Lihue, HI, USA
Another Scott — with Negev Scott Rifenbark and Charles Scott Rifenbark
Miss you Scott and all the great times we had playing music together and in the band with Kristi. Happy Birthday 
— with Scott looking sharp.
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“A Few Stories”

One thing I liked about Scott was that he never talked about himself. He seemed to be able to stay in the moment, always providing a calm, relaxing experience. However, you could fill up a book with what he could talk about, but that wasn’t his style. He was humble.

He was not constrained by political borders or ideologies; Scott was a citizen of the world. You might find him in LA or New York, or you might come across him at ancient Mayan ruins or the Taj Mahal. He told me one time that he and Charlie took a trip to Russia from Finland, where they were both coaching professional football. On the return, Charlie’s papers weren’t in order or something, and they kept him, making Scott leave. Scott said he eventually made it home. He told it matter of factly. I would have been freaking out. Scott understood it was out of his control and that Charlie would eventually work it out with the Russians. And that is exactly what happened.

Scott didn’t need someone to tell him what to believe or how to think; he thought for himself. He was an original thinker.

Scott, my son Gage and I were flying to Phoenix to visit Charlie and take in an Arizona Rattler’s Arena Football game where Charlie worked as a coach. As we were going through TSA in the Portland airport a TSA employee said to Scott, “Hey you look just like the Dude." Scott didn’t skip a beat. Right on cue Scott said to him, "We’ll that just your opinion man," as if he really was the Dude and kept right on walking. That was Scott. Funny as Hell and dry wit and humor. It was classic Scott. I miss you Buddy.

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Scotty's Surf Co still going …
2024, Wailua River, Wailua, HI, USA
Scotty's Surf Co still going strong!!!! Scotty invested plus taught hard work and integrity
Vern’s Deck
Roseburg, OR, USA
Vern’s Deck
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We enjoyed our Buffalo Trace. Best times were visiting after work, having a few drinks of Buffalo Trace with Scott and Kristi before band rehearsal. We’d have one or two more as we practiced. Best of times. 
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A beautiful, sunny day in the Willamette, thinking of Scott, and who should call but our mutual friend, Larry Potts. Larry went to early elementary school in McKenzie with Scott, then Larry's dad recruited Ray to Roseburg into the education community. Small world, maybe, but maybe just the ongoing impact of a truly amazing guy. Even in physical absentia sending good vibes...
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 The qualities Scott had and their impact on me will always live on. Many days it is a challenge to understand (and navigate) my little universe. Having had a person in my life, even for such a short time, with the strength of character that Scott displayed (and some good music), helps me reflect, and sometimes be more tolerable. Kindness, humility, fearlessness, (and good music) are a few of the traits he had that come to mind. Will never forget...
Just finished a set of songs
Oran Mor Artisan Mead, Melrose Road, Roseburg, OR, USA
Just finished a set of songs
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Thinking of Scott; happy got to see the band this summer at Graffitti Weekend, a brief moment of indoor human connection, excellent to see that part of him carry on through family and loved ones; could feel his presence. Picture of Scott in his hiking garb, underneath the "beware of Bigfoot" sign, is permanently attached to a wall of my "man cave".  Love to all who knew and miss him. 
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I am so sad to not have Scott in my life anymore but at the same time blessed to have spent some of the best years of my life with him. He was truly one of the best "dudes" I have ever met. The time we spent together on the practice field and in battle Friday nights made us brothers and I will always hold him close to my heart. He was a huge part of our success in turning our football program into one of the best in the state. Love you buddy!
My heart goes out to cousin Nancy, Aunt Audrey and the whole extended family. Every memory I have of Scott is good. He lead a brilliant life and it’s obvious he touched so many! What an amazing life and man. Rest in piece and keep playing that guitar and making music. Hearts and minds, we love you !
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Patti Malcom
1991, Gales Creek, OR, USA
There are so many stories to tell, from the days when our kids were young. The kids were best friends, and so were we, as parents. I went back to look at photos of those days, and every birthday was celebrated with the Rifenbark family. I found many pictures from camping with Ray & Patti and Scott & Nancy and family, a trip to McKenzie Bridge, picnics, game/family nights and so many more that bring back special memories. Scott was such an amazing friend, and we loved sharing any and all occasions with Scott, Nancy, Kristi, Charlie, and Joey.
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Halloween party family photo …
1991, Gales Creek, OR, USA
Halloween party family photo at Jossi's
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I remember Tom would tell a story about a visit to Oregon to see the Rifenbarks. The Johnson’s and Rifenbarks visited Sea Lions caves. They all were going to get on the elevator down but there wasn’t enough room for all of them so they were going to wait for the next trip down. One child in the group got on the elevator instead of waiting with the group. Since the elevator trip takes a few minutes to come back up parents were worried. Tom always told the story claiming Steve got on the elevator alone. Dave Johnson heard the story and claimed he was the child that got on the elevator alone. Once during a visit with Scott when all were adults Tom told the story and Scott laughed and said Tom had it all wrong. Scott was the child that got on the elevator alone, and during the wait for the elevator to return with the anxious parents a nice old couple looked after Scott. Of the three (Steve, Dave ,Scott ) Scott seemed like the least likely to have jumped ahead of everyone. We now know the “true story “ of the Legend of Sea Lion Caves. Scott did tell me when we visited for Uncle Ray and Patti’s wedding that he (Scott) married the love of his life, Nancy. Scott was a great guy and will be missed. My condolences to all who knew him.
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I remember up at Mckenzie bridge Scott wrote a play the monster of McKenzie bridge all the cousin's were in it. We were 12 or 14. We charged the people in the cabins I think 10 cents. My cousin Dan was the monster we put tree moss on his head a very good memory
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