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In lieu of flowers

Please consider giving to a fundraiser for Scotch Plains Fanwood Scholarship Fund.

Background

Playing softball and baseball meant a lot to Rory when he was younger.
He was well known as a home run hitter in our town.
He played for many years, even as our children grew up; we all attended and enjoyed many of his games.
Once our children were old enough, he was very proud and happy that Ricky and Brandon played in the Westfield PAL League.
Rory went on to become a PAL coach and coached for many years, even after our sons went on to high school.
He was remembered for his humor and his caring attitude by the players.
There was always a football being thrown around somewhere, and most recently in our pool.

During this time, we are kindly asking that flowers not be sent to the the Presbyterian Church.
A scholarship for the 2025/2026 school year was just created in Rory's name.
A scholarship will be awarded to a deserving senior at Scotch Plains-Fanwood High School. The ideal recipient will have either played baseball or football at the PAL level or during their high school years and has displayed a strong leadership role.

Thank you for your consideration.

Warm Regards & Love,
The Ruhl Family
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Funds are being collected and disbursed by Donna Dinizo Ruhl, Rory's wife.

Updates

Update from Oct. 16, 2025

If you are not comfortable donating through this website. A check made out to the SPfF Scholarship Foundation.
(In the memo section, please make sure to write the Rory Ruhl Memorial Scholarship.)
Mail to:
The Scotch Plains
Fanwood Scholarship
Foundation
PO Box 123
Fanwood, NJ 07023

We thank you for your donation in his name. 😘

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 Dear Donna and Family, So sorry for your loss of Rory. A Great Husband, Father, Grandfather and Friend!! He will be mi…

 Dear Donna and Family, So sorry for your loss of Rory. A Great Husband, Father, Grandfather and Fr…

 Dear Donna and Family, So sorry for your loss of Rory. A Great …

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