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Rodney's obituary

We mournfully announce the passing of Mr. Rodney "Rod" "Mr. Chop" Sogga, who departed this life on November 4, 2023. Born on May 27, 1940, Rodney was a man remembered for his kindness, generosity, and distinctive humor. His strength, protective nature, and the warmth of his love touched the lives of all who knew him.

Rodney is survived by his beloved wife, Susan Lapham-Sogga, with whom he shared a loving commitment that spanned 44 years, culminating in a vow renewal on March 11, 2023. In addition to his wife, surviving family members include his brother David Benson; his sisters Robin Clark, Randy Gentile, and Roberta Rudolph; his siblings-in-law Wendy and Paul Ferenze and  Joan and Dale Lance; his niece Rachel Morse; and his great-nieces Leeana and Jillian Morse.  Niece Beth Buckley.

He was predeceased by his mother, Helen Benson; his sister, Rose Forcier; and his dear Aunt Hannie.

An accomplished and loving man, Rodney's legacy was marked by his service as a US Marine, beginning on February 26, 1959. He later embarked on a successful career at  Kurt H Volk in Milford as a machine operator. After moving to North Carolina in 1994, Rod began a career with DSC Logistics, from which he retired in 2005. Rodney was a proud cancer survivor and a devoted husband who dedicated his life to the moments that mattered.

Throughout his life, Rodney was passionate about a variety of interests. He enjoyed the simplicity of a good "bowl of macaroni", the refreshing taste of root beer, orange soda, grape soda, and ice tea. His favorite artists were Johnny Cash and Charo; and he found joy in watching TV Shows like Taxi, Barney Miller, and Frazier. Rodney loved the excitement of sports, loyally supporting the Cubs, Steelers, UNC Tarheels, and NY Rangers. He was a fan of movies, especially Elmer Gantry and enjoyed playing cards and board games.

Renowned for his quiet demeanor, when Rodney spoke, people listened. His favorite local spot was at Seven Seas, and he cherished every trip to New England that he and Sue shared. A defender of animal rights and supporter of St. Jude, his generosity knew no bounds. Those closest to him will remember his gentle spirit and dedication to making the world a better place.

In lieu of a formal memorial service, the family has opted to host an open house, celebration of life, on November 20, 2023, from 3:00 P.M. until 6:00 P.M.  Friends are invited to stop by Rod and Sue's home to extend their condolences during these hours. Light refreshments will be offered! Please contact Sue directly for the address. 

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Rods memory to the Wounded Warrior Project by following the link below 

https://support.woundedwarrio…

Additionally, a formal, military honors, memorial service will be held following the holiday season in Rod's hometown of Milford,  CT for family and friends. 

Until we meet again, Rodney will be profoundly missed, his memory cherished and his life celebrated.

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I'm so sorry for your loss!  I will always remember our chats about the Tarheels!  He was such a gentleman and will be …
I'm so sorry for your loss!  I will always remember our chats about the Tarheels!  He was such a ge…
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Sue, I’m so very sorry for your loss!  Rodney was a very blessed man to have you by his side!  Rodney will always be in…
Sue, I’m so very sorry for your loss!  Rodney was a very blessed man to have you by his side!  Rodn…
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Mr. Rodney "Rod;  "Mr. Chop"" Sogga