I am so saddened to find this out. I now know why he didn't answer me in August and September of 21. Bob was such a great guy, husband, and dad, and I will miss our long talks as we were living miles and miles apart.
I met Bob while playing Centipede T Galaxy World on Gary and North Ave. In Carol Stream. When he asked my fiend to go out to his car with he and his friend he couldn't locate his car (new to him) which should have been a clue. My friend and his friend were hot and heavy in the back seat of his Charger. A cop came up and was fortunately someone he knew. I knew I would be chopped to pieces but wasn't. He asked me for number but only had a sharpie and no paper so I wrote my name and number in sharpie on his forearm. That began everything!